Whats up with the women on Instagram giving me either slow or no replies?
I am mainly talking about the women on Instagram who replied to me and had some chat but giving slow replies. I am a 23 year old guy studying MBA so I am a grad school student and having no luck with relationships and never had a girlfriend and I am having 0 luck on dating apps as no one matches with me even after liking multiple profiles. I live in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. So I also message several women on Instagram who were in my school or currently in my grad school and even message their mutuals. Sadly even the ones who were in my school doesn't remember me as I was too shy those days and avoided to talking to girls in school days as I faced severe bullying and humiliation from my class boys. Most of them I chat with on Instagram are within 20-25 age range so many are in college or grad school or are working already. Even the ones in college are typically Medical students. The ones working definitely has a busy schedule so maybe thats why their replies are really slow and majority of them take hours or even a day or 2 to reply to my messages. There was one who used to chat with me regularly before but she ghosted me for no reason. But what made me worried and sad was that yesterday was a Sunday and not even one woman chatted with me. All the messages are shown as sent. I am chatting with at least about 6-7 women at the moment and none chatted with me yesterday that to on a weekend. My Instagram is suddenly dead. What sucks is I had a female friend during my elementary school but sadly stopped talking with her in high school due to shyness again and she saw me getting bullied a lot too by other boys in class. After years I messaged her on Instagram and she even replied a few months ago saying she still remembers me and wishes all good things for me. But thats it. 2 days ago, I messaged her and she left my message on seen and it made me feel hurt. Why are they doing that?
Reply 1
They are more interested in the other people and commitments in their life than you.
Reply 2
Hero22
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by black teaThey are more interested in the other people and commitments in their life than you.
Is it normal tho as they don't know me well? Barely any woman has ever been interested in me. Is it normal for women to do that with men whom they don't know properly?
Reply 3
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by Hero22Is it normal tho as they don't know me well? Barely any woman has ever been interested in me. Is it normal for women to do that with men whom they don't know properly?
Is it normal for a woman to prioritise her life and people she knows over some random stranger from Instagram?
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