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Losing virginity breaking hymen

Which is easier or better or preferred:
Having your hymen broke with a quick one thrust
OR
Gradual penetration at a slow pace?

Reply 1

Both will probably hurt a bit and cause bleeding. Might I suggest breaking your own hymen - thus avoiding the pain and discomfort during your first time.

Reply 2

Original post
by Anonymous
Both will probably hurt a bit and cause bleeding. Might I suggest breaking your own hymen - thus avoiding the pain and discomfort during your first time.

With? I'm just afraid of "breaking it the wrong way".😅 Mother never gave details of sex ed just handed me a pad and told me to wear it every month and kept me from having guy friends or talking to any guys in general.

Reply 3

Original post
by Anonymous
Which is easier or better or preferred:
Having your hymen broke with a quick one thrust
OR
Gradual penetration at a slow pace?

Just a quick one thrust, you'll suffer less, and be fine in no time

Reply 4

Original post
by Anonymous
Just a quick one thrust, you'll suffer less, and be fine in no time

Is this a response coming from a female who lost her virginity first trying one slow gradual penetration then switched to one quick thrust?

Reply 5

Original post
by Anonymous
Just a quick one thrust, you'll suffer less, and be fine in no time

Not every female.had that reaction. One girl I know told me she asked her then bf to just do it with one hard thrust after other attempts failed. It ended in pain, tears and blood-soaked sheets. Not good considering that, for some unknown reason, they were doing it in his parents' bed... 😳

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