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Losing virginity breaking hymen

Which is easier or better or preferred:
Having your hymen broke with a quick one thrust
OR
Gradual penetration at a slow pace?
Both will probably hurt a bit and cause bleeding. Might I suggest breaking your own hymen - thus avoiding the pain and discomfort during your first time.
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Original post by Anonymous
Both will probably hurt a bit and cause bleeding. Might I suggest breaking your own hymen - thus avoiding the pain and discomfort during your first time.

With? I'm just afraid of "breaking it the wrong way".😅 Mother never gave details of sex ed just handed me a pad and told me to wear it every month and kept me from having guy friends or talking to any guys in general.
Original post by Anonymous
Which is easier or better or preferred:
Having your hymen broke with a quick one thrust
OR
Gradual penetration at a slow pace?

Just a quick one thrust, you'll suffer less, and be fine in no time
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Original post by Anonymous
Just a quick one thrust, you'll suffer less, and be fine in no time

Is this a response coming from a female who lost her virginity first trying one slow gradual penetration then switched to one quick thrust?
Original post by Anonymous
Just a quick one thrust, you'll suffer less, and be fine in no time

Not every female.had that reaction. One girl I know told me she asked her then bf to just do it with one hard thrust after other attempts failed. It ended in pain, tears and blood-soaked sheets. Not good considering that, for some unknown reason, they were doing it in his parents' bed... 😳
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