I have been with my girlfriend for a year now. She's an amazing girl, very beautiful, kind and caring. We have a great relationship and I really love her. She's not an introvert or extrovert but more of an ambivert. Shes very independent and does things her own way. However, she is quite moody and whatever she does is dictated by her mood swings. However, I want her to like my friends and socialise with them but she does the following:
She really doesn't like
Too much socialization
Having large groups of friends over or dinners and lunches with large group of friends.
Having many friends over to cook and socialise and eat. She refused to cook for my friends and did not agree to having 10 of them over.
Will socialise when she wants to with my friends but isn't interested in befriending any of them. She just talks to them for a while , very formal conversations and then leaves us to mingle. I really want her to integrate but she seems to have a very low opinion of them as she thinks they are "rip offs" of each other who have no personality of their own and have their entire lives dedicated to woke left politics.
On the contrary she's quite friendly, funny and affectionate with her own friends and colleagues. She has never pushed me to be friends with her friends or family.
She also doesn't like to stay home much and likes to go out for walks.
She is also very big on hygiene so daily morning showers, spotless bathrooms and rooms and won't allow anyone to use her bathroom. So any overnight guests like family or close friends have to use my bathroom and can't use hers
I really love this girl and she's everything I want in a woman. While she does have the above traits, she's also very kind, donates and helps animals who are suffering or need rescue and is very helpful, going out of the way to help people. But I really want her to stay home and socialise with my friends just like I do.
What do I do? How do I make her open up?
She's 33 and I'm 29.