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So I told my bsf something (it’s a whole story) and she reacted like completely different and she sounded so mad. I understand why she could be annoyed but I really didn’t expect it to go like it did . A lot of times I apologised and said “I’m really sorry I didn’t mean to make you mad” and she said “I’m not angry at u” and “I didn’t get mad”. She also said we’re not in a fight xx and we said other stuff and I said “I really don’t want this to be awkward tmrw cos your my best friend” (we’re doing a theatre thing in a week) and I’m worried it will. She’s a really bubbly person and really crazy and nice and we’ve never properly got in a fight.

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jelllyfiiish

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Original post by Anonymous

It won’t be awkward if you allow the conversation to flow; Don’t let this issue cause any change to your way of talking to her normally!

If it still bothers you, you could always talk to them and apologise for the other day even if she wasn’t mad (remember to not be persistent on what you think you feel about her, she might feel pressured and uncomfortable).
E.g. ‘I know you’re not mad but I’m still sorry about what I said the other day which I thought made you feel xxx’ - ‘I didn’t mean it to lead to this situation, I know you’re not angry at all’