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This guy acts annoyed by me but speaks to me?

We are both guys btw. Gonna call him Joe. He asked why i ask so many questions, he will tell me to shut up, he said he looses brain cells speaking to me, one time he got frustrated with me and said "no i don't even celebrate my own birthday". but at lunch he talks to me and i often see him walking by himself too.why cant he just speak to other people he sometimes speaks too.

anyways i noticed how he shoves through people too in hallways and one day he pushed me repeatedly to the ground and saying "go". after that his excuse was "i kept telling u to go"

after this at lunch he decides to try to talk to my friends at lunch as if nothing happened, I asked some of my friends if they know him and they said “no” and that he never spoke to them before.

Dude acts all annoyed by me but chooses to come to me and my friends. after that push he tried to start a argument but at times he act nice again and start convos also sometimes i would be talking to some else and he acted like i was asking him when i wasnt.

Reply 1

something i forgfot to add after he pushed me ands spoke to my friends he would call one of my friends my name for some reason It was werid

Reply 2

Sounds like bullying out of jealousy, based on the fact that you sound as though you have a friend group and he's more of a floater / someone with no 'home' friend group.

It doesn't sound like he deserves your time or respect unless he learns to treat you as a friend, which means talking politely to you and not pushing you about. Taking an interest in what you like, stuff like that.

You are going to have immature people, but especially in school (which I'm assuming you're in). Don't take anything too personally and stick with the people that actually respect you.

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by Anonymous
Sounds like bullying out of jealousy, based on the fact that you sound as though you have a friend group and he's more of a floater / someone with no 'home' friend group.
It doesn't sound like he deserves your time or respect unless he learns to treat you as a friend, which means talking politely to you and not pushing you about. Taking an interest in what you like, stuff like that.
You are going to have immature people, but especially in school (which I'm assuming you're in). Don't take anything too personally and stick with the people that actually respect you.

I never seen him act like this with our mutual acquitance tho who has more friends then me and a big friend group

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