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Why can’t I orgasm or feel good by insertion

I’m a virgin I’ve always felt good when I hump something but when I try inserting even when I’m stimulated it just feels horrible I’ve recently bought a vibrator but it doesn’t feel good it kinda works on my clit but not enough to orgasm whenever I try to insert either my fingers or vibrator it just feels weird and uncomfortable. What can I do

Reply 1

Oscar Gibbons

If your a virgin then everytbing is probably still too big to be comfortable, especially if you aren't relaxed. It takes time to open up. Lube? Have you tried that? Tiny steps, take it slowly, get aroused, make sure you're properly wet before trying to insert anything. Insert a finger slowly, little by little, not all in one great wham. Stop if it hurts and just stay there, relaxing, maybe wiggling your finger a bit. Rub your clit at the same time, imagine anything that turns you on. And use plenty of lube. If your hymen isn't broken, that could be makimg it difficult too, so just go nice and slow, wet and warm.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

The clit is the female sexual organ, penetration is really just for the guy. Vast majority of women don’t get much/any sexual pleasure from penetration, but the media/porn has women thinking there’s something wrong with them.