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18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over

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Original post by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over


Wow you are virgin ,this shows a self discipline and self control ,are you a boy right .
Be proud of your self ,this reflect how you value yourself and don’t pressurise yourself because you are a virgin .
And do not others thoughts regarding your sexual purity.
Save it until the right time while having strong and confident reasons for instance I as a Christian waiting until marriage solidifies my faith .
And take things slowly everything has its own time even talking to girls ,so use wisdom to avoid bad and worse decisions that will cost you and your future .
Hope My advice will be helpful
Reply 2
never kissed? bro rlly? if it’s by choice i respect it but if ur looking for it literally just go clubbing once
Original post by 233w341
never kissed? bro rlly? if it’s by choice i respect it but if ur looking for it literally just go clubbing once

no its not by choice i assumed that was obvious by me making the post ******
Original post by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over

No.
As a girl in the exact same situation I would not worry about it. Society has conditioned us all to find having sex really young as normal and and so anyone over the age of 17 who hasn't been kissed or is still a virgin is considered weird, when in reality it's not a big deal.

You have so much time to go out, kiss people and have sex. Not everyone is experienced. And that's okay :smile:
Original post by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over

No it isn’t “over”. That’s over the top mate. It sounds as if you’re attaching self worth to this stuff which is usually a bad idea. What have you done about this so far if it’s an issue for you?
Original post by Anonymous
No it isn’t “over”. That’s over the top mate. It sounds as if you’re attaching self worth to this stuff which is usually a bad idea. What have you done about this so far if it’s an issue for you?

it is over since 95% of people my age have at least kissed
i havent done anything becuz theres no point
Reply 7
Original post by affordable-mount
it is over since 95% of people my age have at least kissed
i havent done anything becuz theres no point


sounds like you want to kiss icl, it’s not over it’s literally far from it, go to the gym, make sure ur decently in shape, get a nice hair cut, flattering clothes, a chain and hit ur local club, i promise you you’ll get 20 kisses in a week, before clubbing i had only kissed twice, after i think it’s around the 40’s, i can give you advice on getting with girls, but not an actual relationship
Reply 8
Don’t panic, it’s not uncommon at 18. It’s only the very attractive set that are on multiple relationships by this stage
Original post by 233w341
sounds like you want to kiss icl, it’s not over it’s literally far from it, go to the gym, make sure ur decently in shape, get a nice hair cut, flattering clothes, a chain and hit ur local club, i promise you you’ll get 20 kisses in a week, before clubbing i had only kissed twice, after i think it’s around the 40’s, i can give you advice on getting with girls, but not an actual relationship

social anxiety is too bad to go clubbing and I have no friends to go with
Original post by Zarek
Don’t panic, it’s not uncommon at 18. It’s only the very attractive set that are on multiple relationships by this stage

not true at all, most people have had at least 1 gf at this point
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Original post by affordable-mount
not true at all, most people have had at least 1 gf at this point

What’s the proof of this. I reckon half the people I met starting uni were still virgins. Of course there were a some that had had a couple of relationships and were in the acceleration lane. Any rate, keep working at it and don’t despair
Original post by Zarek
What’s the proof of this. I reckon half the people I met starting uni were still virgins. Of course there were a some that had had a couple of relationships and were in the acceleration lane. Any rate, keep working at it and don’t despair

most people lose virginity at 15-17
Reply 13
Original post by affordable-mount
most people lose virginity at 15-17

Better get cracking then
lots of people, guys mainly obviously, surpass their mid-20s and older and are still like this
I was 23 when I had my first kiss. Things are going fine now. Don't sweat it. Teenage romances involve a lot of misery anyway, it seems like.
one guy i'm in contact with, he told me his best friend never kissed a girl until he was 30, yes, its a sad lonely journey, reality, for many people out there, guys, men mainly.
Original post by Zarek
Better get cracking then

theres no point anymore
Reply 18
Original post by affordable-mount
theres no point anymore

Giving up a 18 is a bit much. Patience and resilience
Original post by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over

Dude, I'm a girl, virgin and never kissed. Nor been on a date. Trust me, true love will embrace you the way you are. Be proud of it, don't be sad or disheartened. You can speak to girls, if they mock you, they don't deserve your valuable time.

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