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Reply 20

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by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over
try kissing a mirror to practice worked a charm for me, endd up get a few girls like a week later when i was 18 , Kristan Succube

Reply 21

know of one guy who never kissed a girl until 30, and another at 33 who still hasn't, yes, its a brutal lonely journey for many men out there.

Reply 22

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by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over

that's crazy

Reply 23

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by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over

You can get rid of your fear and just approach a girl you like or make yourself approachable so she will come to you.

Reply 24

ok, I get why you're worried but you need to realise that you have plenty of time and there's no reason to panic thinking it's over - your life is literally just beginning! I used to feel the same way honestly, but trust me, as cliche as it sounds you'll find the right person. If you're not picky and just want any kind of action, go to some clubs, or find a good friend group through which you can meet more people. Having a decent amount of friends will open you up to a new world of connections and hopefully more opportunities with women. Hope this helps.

Reply 25

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by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over

Real, I’m 21 F and I’m a virgin had first kiss at 17 to my best friend. But you can build up your confidence just by speaking to people online

Reply 26

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by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over

id love to chat

Reply 27

Absolutely normal. The average age guys lose their virginity in UK is 18

https://postimg.cc/PCm844pC


This study in America also suggests half of 18yo guys are virgins
https://datepsychology.com/are-27-of-young-men-really-virgins-and-why/#:~:text=This%20shows%20a%20very%20strong,%2C%20only%201.9%25%20are%20virgins.
(edited 1 year ago)

Reply 28

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by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over

Im a girl and had my first kiss and lost my virginity at 17 ive just turned 19 and waiting was the best decision I promise its not over I feel like if ur looking for it then it won't happen if u just forget about it it will happen sooner than u think

Reply 29

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by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over


honestly don’t stress, i had my first kiss and lost my virginity with the same boy at 17, he was the same as me having not done anything before at 18, there’s plenty of time to do that

Reply 30

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by reneepie
Absolutely normal. The average age guys lose their virginity in UK is 18
https://postimg.cc/PCm844pC
This study in America also suggests half of 18yo guys are virgins
https://datepsychology.com/are-27-of-young-men-really-virgins-and-why/#:~:text=This%20shows%20a%20very%20strong,%2C%20only%201.9%25%20are%20virgins.

ok but if by virgin you mean penis in vag then this excludes any other sexual encounters, like handjobs or oral sex. ive never had ANY kind of sexual experience with a girl at all.
Also what about kissing or holding hands? Im sure plenty of these virgins in the studys have done those.

Being 18 and never kissed held hands on top of being a complete virgin is much rarer than half the population my age.

Reply 31

i think its becoming more common in modern times than ever before for men to surpass 25, even 30s and older and still be virgins

Reply 32

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by affordable-mount
18 never kissed been on a date or had sex and i cant speak to girls is it over

Come talk to me chat anytime and say what u need oflr feel or teach u something from my magic

Reply 33

i think its an understatement that most men are sadly never taught on how to successfully interact with women growing up in their teenage years or adolescent years

Reply 34

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by H8Courtship217
i think its an understatement that most men are sadly never taught on how to successfully interact with women growing up in their teenage years or adolescent years

Talking to women is the same as talking to men. You can be good at talking to people, or you might not be. Some people aren't, most are alright, and some are quite good.

Reply 35

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by Doomotron
Talking to women is the same as talking to men. You can be good at talking to people, or you might not be. Some people aren't, most are alright, and some are quite good.

if that is the case, then the whole dating coach/pick up artist industry would not be as so huge and big, it has exploded a lot within the past decade or more

Reply 36

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by H8Courtship217
if that is the case, then the whole dating coach/pick up artist industry would not be as so huge and big, it has exploded a lot within the past decade or more

It's still a pretty small industry (the male centric version anyway, there's always been a fairly large female orientated dating advice industry integrated into women's magazines etc.). PUA in particular probably peaked over a decade ago.

Reply 37

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by affordable-mount
ok but if by virgin you mean penis in vag then this excludes any other sexual encounters, like handjobs or oral sex. ive never had ANY kind of sexual experience with a girl at all.
Also what about kissing or holding hands? Im sure plenty of these virgins in the studys have done those.
Being 18 and never kissed held hands on top of being a complete virgin is much rarer than half the population my age.

And I'm sure plenty haven't. I don't know know what the point was of asking the question if you're so bent on an answer anyway. You're being a stereotypical foolish teenager, making a big deal out of nothing. It's absolutely normal to be inexperienced at 18 and you have plenty of time to get a girl.

Reply 38

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by reneepie
And I'm sure plenty haven't. I don't know know what the point was of asking the question if you're so bent on an answer anyway. You're being a stereotypical foolish teenager, making a big deal out of nothing. It's absolutely normal to be inexperienced at 18 and you have plenty of time to get a girl.

wrong its already weird how inexperienced i am

Reply 39

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by affordable-mount
wrong its already weird how inexperienced i am


Mate please stop being such a melt about this, these people are tryna help and they’re giving good suggestions, listen to them. Many girls at 18 are inexpirienced too and even so if you’re at a club why do they need to know you’ve never kissed anyone? It’s not the be all and end all, if you want a relationship work on yourself and pick up new hobbies where you interact with people, you’ll make friends that way, work on your social skills and get to meet girls with similar interests. You’re 18 it’s not the end of the world that you’ve never been intimate with anyone before, just focus on yourself and eventually other people will recognise it and it’ll get better.

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