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im one of the uks biggest incels

im 18 and have never
- kissed
- held hands
- had a gf
- been on a date
- had sex

ive also never gone to a party or been drunk or done any of those normal experiences, massive incel trait

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What do u want us to do about it lmao 💀
cookie for you 🍪
As was pointed out in your other, nearly identical thread. your circumstances are not extraordinary for 18.
Reply 4
You are 18. Many 18 year olds are in the same situation.
Original post by Admit-One
As was pointed out in your other, nearly identical thread. your circumstances are not extraordinary for 18.

yes they are
Original post by affordable-mount
yes they are


I doubt you’re one of TSR’s biggest incels, much less the UK. Put things in perspective.
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and have never
- kissed
- held hands
- had a gf
- been on a date
- had sex
ive also never gone to a party or been drunk or done any of those normal experiences, massive incel trait


Don't rush it. Soon you'll be wishing time would slow down as you get older. Being drunk isn't all it's cracked up to be unless you feel majorly stressed then there's pretty much no point getting drunk tbh. Good luck !
Reply 8
Original post by Admit-One
I doubt you’re one of TSR’s biggest incels, much less the UK. Put things in perspective.

Haven't seen those guys for a while, now you mention it.
Reply 9
All of those things are normal for 18yos.

But

Do you think your 'problems' are due to women? (That's what makes you an incel)
Reply 10
That's sad but you've not yet failed as a man, 18 years is a bit young to make that judgement.
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and have never
- kissed
- held hands
- had a gf
- been on a date
- had sex
ive also never gone to a party or been drunk or done any of those normal experiences, massive incel trait

Tbf most normal ppl have done these but like bro. No one cares, why r u posting this here like what do u want us to say.
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and have never
- kissed
- held hands
- had a gf
- been on a date
- had sex
ive also never gone to a party or been drunk or done any of those normal experiences, massive incel trait

brother. to be honset with you if i can go back being 18 i would never had sex. sex isnt worth it. having a gf is nice but you got to be careful who you date and who you want to be with.
Reply 13
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and have never
- kissed
- held hands
- had a gf
- been on a date
- had sex

ive also never gone to a party or been drunk or done any of those normal experiences, massive incel trait

It's pretty common for an 18 year old (male or female) to have not done all of the above, especially now with the "sex recession". But even before, lots of people, even if they'd had sex, wouldn't have been in actual relationships in their teens.
Reply 14
Original post by Smack
It's pretty common for an 18 year old (male or female) to have not done all of the above, especially now with the "sex recession". But even before, lots of people, even if they'd had sex, wouldn't have been in actual relationships in their teens.

That's an interesting point on the sex recession.

Does the fact that many men are being left behind in our hostile dating marketplace excuse the OP or does the fact that he is part of that group render him a lesser man so to speak. To what extent does being part of the herd excuse a person's actions (or lack of).
Reply 15
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and have never
- kissed
- held hands
- had a gf
- been on a date
- had sex
ive also never gone to a party or been drunk or done any of those normal experiences, massive incel trait

So what? You're only 18.
Plenty of time to do all of that, or not.
Maybe you will decide none of that is actually important.
If you go through life expecting things to happen just because you're a certain age, you will always be disappointed.

You have other things to focus on, like getting a job, travel or studies.
Go get a hobby, something you like, and you'll meet people who like you.

Just relax and give it time.
(edited 3 months ago)
Reply 16
A friend of mine went to a week long semi pro-gamer tournament/convention in Germany and apparently they had signs reminding people to wash.

Until you hit those kind of levels, you're a complete amateur at this.
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and have never
- kissed
- held hands
- had a gf
- been on a date
- had sex
ive also never gone to a party or been drunk or done any of those normal experiences, massive incel trait

I'm 20 and I just started going out for drinks.
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and have never
- kissed
- held hands
- had a gf
- been on a date
- had sex

ive also never gone to a party or been drunk or done any of those normal experiences, massive incel trait


You realise calling yourself an incel is a negative label? You may not have had these experiences but you're still very young. Maybe come back when you're 40 and you've not done any of these?
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and have never
- kissed
- held hands
- had a gf
- been on a date
- had sex
ive also never gone to a party or been drunk or done any of those normal experiences, massive incel trait

real. This is normal buddy it's called being sensible and as long as your excelling in the things that matter , I don't see the problem 🙂

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