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Insecurities

Okay, so i know what you're thinking. Why is a 13 year old girl talking about her insecurities on a random website? Well i have been worried about something and to be honest i feel a bit embarrassed telling parents about it. So, basically. I'm insecure about my breasts. In the changing room people make fun of how I'm flat chested. And when i told my friend about it she said that she was flat too, but (Not being perverted or anything) but i know hers are bigger than mine.

I know im only 13 but everyone I'm friends with have developed boobs quicker than me and i cant help but feel different.
And i also put it on health because i wanted to know if its normal to be really flat chested or if its something i should check out

Reply 1

Surnia

But you are different; everyone is unique!

Your body is still developing, but if you finish up with small boobs it's not a health condition that needs checking out by a doctor, it's just the way you are. When you are older you can get bras to give you a bit more cleavage if you think you need it, but for now stop comparing yourself to other people.

If people are making fun of you, ignore them. Or try a retort of "my boobs may be smaller than yours, but at least I'm a nice person and don't bully others about their appearance."

Reply 2

elareare

Original post by Anonymous

Okay, so i know what you're thinking. Why is a 13 year old girl talking about her insecurities on a random website? Well i have been worried about something and to be honest i feel a bit embarrassed telling parents about it. So, basically. I'm insecure about my breasts. In the changing room people make fun of how I'm flat chested. And when i told my friend about it she said that she was flat too, but (Not being perverted or anything) but i know hers are bigger than mine.
I know im only 13 but everyone I'm friends with have developed boobs quicker than me and i cant help but feel different.
And i also put it on health because i wanted to know if its normal to be really flat chested or if its something i should check out

it's *absolutely* normal. your friends should not tease you for your shape and size- they're just being mean, and you should ignore them or tell them to stop
everyone is different, and that's perfect!!
some people develop quicker than others, and some have smaller boobs than others. it's perfectly normal and absolutely nothing to worry about
ur beautiful the way you are.