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Is it ok to skip freshers week as a mature student?

Hey, not sure if this question is silly or now.

I just turned 30 this August and am starting at Arts Uni Plymouth in September, I'm quite anxious about the fact that as an older male younger people may feel a bit weirded out with an older guy at their events.
I live at home which is close to 2 hours away from the University so getting to freshers events itself would be inconvenient.

I want to make sure I make the correct decisions, I don't want to isolate myself but I also want to be self aware and conscious of the fact that I am likely much older than many of my fellow students. does anyone have any advice about how they approached these kinds of things as mature students.

Thank you

Luis

Reply 1

I'm planning on going to mine (36 m), for the freshers fayre at least- see what freebies I can score. Also, I know there's at least a mature students society and a society relating directly to my course that I want to scope out and get some info from, as well as the support in place for students. Never know, might stumble upon another society that grabs my interest. As for the events and socialising side, I've signed up for a trip to a local, casual driving range. I figured if I can find the mature students society, see if anyone from there is going, or see if I can get folk to tag along and that's the start of getting to know some new people. If there's not anyone interested- well at the very worst, I get some time to practice my game! Defo won't be clubbing or spending late nights in the union on that side of events, but if there's anything there that's interesting you- go for it! If it's a bust, well at least you tried, and you never know- it might actually go amazing!

Reply 2

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by Tommcc1288
I'm planning on going to mine (36 m), for the freshers fayre at least- see what freebies I can score. Also, I know there's at least a mature students society and a society relating directly to my course that I want to scope out and get some info from, as well as the support in place for students. Never know, might stumble upon another society that grabs my interest. As for the events and socialising side, I've signed up for a trip to a local, casual driving range. I figured if I can find the mature students society, see if anyone from there is going, or see if I can get folk to tag along and that's the start of getting to know some new people. If there's not anyone interested- well at the very worst, I get some time to practice my game! Defo won't be clubbing or spending late nights in the union on that side of events, but if there's anything there that's interesting you- go for it! If it's a bust, well at least you tried, and you never know- it might actually go amazing!

Ah never thought there could be events specific to mature students, I'm going to take a look, thank you for your reply!

Reply 3

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by LCSantos
Hey, not sure if this question is silly or now.
I just turned 30 this August and am starting at Arts Uni Plymouth in September, I'm quite anxious about the fact that as an older male younger people may feel a bit weirded out with an older guy at their events.
I live at home which is close to 2 hours away from the University so getting to freshers events itself would be inconvenient.
I want to make sure I make the correct decisions, I don't want to isolate myself but I also want to be self aware and conscious of the fact that I am likely much older than many of my fellow students. does anyone have any advice about how they approached these kinds of things as mature students.
Thank you
Luis

Hey there! 👋

I just wanted to congratulate you on securing your spot at our university. We're really looking forward to having you join us in September. Starting university as a mature student can be a bit daunting, especially if you've been out of education for a while, but our creative community at AUP is truly special. We have a diverse group of students, including many mature students starting from the age of 21, each with their own unique backgrounds, work experiences, and artistic talents. There's no pressure to join in on traditional "clubbing" events at the SU there are lots of different kinds of activities available that everyone is welcome to participate in.

During my time here, I noticed that many mature students took part in my course, and age was never an issue. We were all focused on our creative pursuits and supporting each other's artistic growth. Creating art is what matters most to us.

Can't wait to have you join us!

Kate 🙂
Arts University Plymouth Rep
Aup.ac.uk
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Reply 4

I’m 28 female w the same concerns. It’s daunting not knowing what you’re walking into, as well as figuring out how to approach social situations being that much older…
Pls let me know if you find anything worth knowing or any societies for mature students at UoP!

Reply 5

Glad I'm not the only one! I sure will! is it UoP you're going to or AUP?

Reply 6

Original post
by LCSantos
Hey, not sure if this question is silly or now.
I just turned 30 this August and am starting at Arts Uni Plymouth in September, I'm quite anxious about the fact that as an older male younger people may feel a bit weirded out with an older guy at their events.
I live at home which is close to 2 hours away from the University so getting to freshers events itself would be inconvenient.
I want to make sure I make the correct decisions, I don't want to isolate myself but I also want to be self aware and conscious of the fact that I am likely much older than many of my fellow students. does anyone have any advice about how they approached these kinds of things as mature students.
Thank you
Luis

Hi @LCSantos

I’m a mature student at AUP just going into my 3rd year. I did do a few of the freshers events when I started. There’s a mature student mixer in the SU during freshers week, but if you can’t get in for that, don’t worry. The Mature Student society has regular meet ups during the semester at lunch times and you’ll have lots of chances to meet other mature students. We’re everywhere and very friendly.

Feel free to ask me any questions.

Andrea (3rd year mature student)

Arts University Plymouth Rep

Aup.ac.uk
Talk to our students -
💻 Email us at [email protected]
☎️ Call us on 01752 203402⁠
📱 Whatsapp us at 07722 744184⁠

Reply 7

Original post
by LCSantos
Hey, not sure if this question is silly or now.
I just turned 30 this August and am starting at Arts Uni Plymouth in September, I'm quite anxious about the fact that as an older male younger people may feel a bit weirded out with an older guy at their events.
I live at home which is close to 2 hours away from the University so getting to freshers events itself would be inconvenient.
I want to make sure I make the correct decisions, I don't want to isolate myself but I also want to be self aware and conscious of the fact that I am likely much older than many of my fellow students. does anyone have any advice about how they approached these kinds of things as mature students.
Thank you
Luis
Hi, older mature student here (43). I’ve just completed a year’s access to HE diploma (Science) with a class of mainly 20 and 21 year olds, have to admit it was daunting at first but as I’m younger than my years I got on with everyone and the age gap was never an issue (although I had to laugh when my tutors mentioned things from when I was younger and was met with blank stares 😂). I’m personally going to the welcome (freshers) week activities but not attending the parties as I can’t bear the thought of staying out until 3am with a load of drunk young people 😂 there is a mature student event that week as well which I will pop along to. But in all honesty once you get to know others on your course the age gap becomes less noticeable. Good luck with your studies.

Reply 8

I went in my 30s and didn't care for Freshers at all tbh, It's not like I haven't seen it all before and had little interest in watching teens vomit on each other.

The reality is I didn't go to make friends or have a life experience, I was just focussed on the qualification. Not that I didn't talk to people, I'd just already socially established myself by this point, I didn't have any teen angst about whether people would like me etc.

Reply 9

Original post
by LCSantos
Glad I'm not the only one! I sure will! is it UoP you're going to or AUP?

UoP. Sorry misread your post 😅
(edited 1 year ago)

Reply 10

Original post
by LCSantos
Hey, not sure if this question is silly or now.
I just turned 30 this August and am starting at Arts Uni Plymouth in September, I'm quite anxious about the fact that as an older male younger people may feel a bit weirded out with an older guy at their events.
I live at home which is close to 2 hours away from the University so getting to freshers events itself would be inconvenient.
I want to make sure I make the correct decisions, I don't want to isolate myself but I also want to be self aware and conscious of the fact that I am likely much older than many of my fellow students. does anyone have any advice about how they approached these kinds of things as mature students.
Thank you
Luis

Hi Luis,

I think you could get embarrassed, but you dare to meet the people you haven't met.

Take it easy, and enjoy.

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