Am I overthinking?

Last night, my girlfriend went out with her co-workers for drinks and then they went back to one of their flats when the pub closed. I saw on her friend’s story, my girlfriend resting her legs on another guy. Throughout the night, she was messaging saying she loves me and was even drunk calling me at points. Am I overthinking or is this actually something to be alarmed by?

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Anonymous #2

Perhaps your overthinking but it’s hard to completely say because she was drunk. Tbh she might have just been tired or relaxed so that’s why she was resting her legs on the other guy.

Reply 2

User_name001

Original post by Anonymous

I think you should be alarmed by it. No girl gets that comfortable goes into like someone’s apartment drunk and literally casually puts their feet up on another guy. Yeah that’s a red flag.

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Anonymous #1

How should I communicate this? I don’t even follow the friend on Instagram. I just saw her story as my girlfriend tagged her on her post. Don’t wanna seem clingy or possessive.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by User_name001

I think you should be alarmed by it. No girl gets that comfortable goes into like someone’s apartment drunk and literally casually puts their feet up on another guy. Yeah that’s a red flag.

Yeah it’s strange because there was a situation two months ago where my girlfriend got upset with me and jealous at a party as I was talking to a girl there for a bit. I only did that though because we were both waiting for the toilet and I was just filling the awkward silence. So it feels disrespectful to an extent that she’s done this when I never had even used physical touch

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User_name001

Original post by Anonymous

How should I communicate this? I don’t even follow the friend on Instagram. I just saw her story as my girlfriend tagged her on her post. Don’t wanna seem clingy or possessive.

I don’t think you are to be honest but at the end of the day she’s your girlfriend you are rightfully seeking clarity and you want to rectify and correct what’s going on. Doesn’t make you clingy or possessive in anyway.