Presumably the lack of a 3 in the suggested name would be because if the ethyl group was anywhere else, the longest continuous carbon chain would have more than 5 carbons and so the name wouldn’t be {blah blah}pentane.
So let’s suppose we are to now ditch the 3 as surely it’s pretty unambiguous where the ethyl group is, right? What do we call it now?
Let’s try ethyl-2-methylpentane first.
This is problematic because this correctly suggests the ethyl group is a substituent, but substituents must always have a number assigned before, which hasn’t happened and so this name is wrong.
Now how about 2-methylethylpentane?
This name is rather ambiguous. Does it mean the ethyl group is also on carbon 2, or is that just the methyl group?
So the least ambiguous name would be 3-ethyl-2-methylpentane, so I’d stick with it.