19 girl, life is so dead
Turning 19 soon, going to uni. Haven't dated anyone, haven't had an actual crush. I blame this on an all girls school. Basically no experience when it comes tor romance. Most girls in my school have a body count over like 4 and I feel so pathetic having none. I do wanna save myself for the right person but it's just embarrassing. How do I up my rizz?
Also going into a male dominated course so I'm just scared of guys in general.
Also going into a male dominated course so I'm just scared of guys in general.
Didn't you post exactly the same thing here a few weeks ago?
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7504681#post99744371
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7504681#post99744371
Original post by Old Skool Freak
Didn't you post exactly the same thing here a few weeks ago?
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7504681#post99744371
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7504681#post99744371
Original post by Anonymous
oh damn, no I didn't write that one but it's literally my situation. Guess I'll just steal the advice😜
Go for it... and apologies for the "false positive" lol
Original post by Anonymous
Turning 19 soon, going to uni. Haven't dated anyone, haven't had an actual crush. I blame this on an all girls school. Basically no experience when it comes tor romance. Most girls in my school have a body count over like 4 and I feel so pathetic having none. I do wanna save myself for the right person but it's just embarrassing. How do I up my rizz?
Also going into a male dominated course so I'm just scared of guys in general.
Also going into a male dominated course so I'm just scared of guys in general.
You'll find someone.
Have you been part of any social activity groups or attended any music concerts/nights out?
Most people meet others through those, and depending on the hobby, people can discuss their favourite aspects of it.
I'd take that low body count as a positive rather than a negative. It's not a race to who can get the most. It's about finding the right person YOU want to be with, not which friends have more or less.
Mine's low, and I'm sure others on this thread will be high. But we all win in our own dating lives.
I presume you've tried the existing dating apps, to engage in conversation with people and see what interests you?
If not, it's worth trying. You can permanently delete them afterwards.
Hold on how can most girls at your school have a body count of over 4 and yet that is the reason you have none? I’m not having a go just wondered
Original post by karl pilkington
Hold on how can most girls at your school have a body count of over 4 and yet that is the reason you have none? I’m not having a go just wondered
Original post by Adz2042
You'll find someone.
Have you been part of any social activity groups or attended any music concerts/nights out?
Most people meet others through those, and depending on the hobby, people can discuss their favourite aspects of it.
I'd take that low body count as a positive rather than a negative. It's not a race to who can get the most. It's about finding the right person YOU want to be with, not which friends have more or less.
Mine's low, and I'm sure others on this thread will be high. But we all win in our own dating lives.
I presume you've tried the existing dating apps, to engage in conversation with people and see what interests you?
If not, it's worth trying. You can permanently delete them afterwards.
Have you been part of any social activity groups or attended any music concerts/nights out?
Most people meet others through those, and depending on the hobby, people can discuss their favourite aspects of it.
I'd take that low body count as a positive rather than a negative. It's not a race to who can get the most. It's about finding the right person YOU want to be with, not which friends have more or less.
Mine's low, and I'm sure others on this thread will be high. But we all win in our own dating lives.
I presume you've tried the existing dating apps, to engage in conversation with people and see what interests you?
If not, it's worth trying. You can permanently delete them afterwards.
Original post by Anonymous
bc most of the girls in my school are introverts and just very out going, always going to parties and meeting new people etc but I'm sort of the opposite of that as well as my friends but we're still some what of the minority. I know it's not like im alone in the situation but it still feels weird yk
They don't seem to be introverts more extrovert, if your the opposite of them your definitely an introvert.
Try and find something that will work for you.
Original post by Faultybot
They don't seem to be introverts more extrovert, if your the opposite of them your definitely an introvert.
Try and find something that will work for you.
Try and find something that will work for you.
Original post by Anonymous
Ph yes I meant them being extroverts and I’m an introverts, I got it the wrong way around. I’m sorry Yes i’m going clubs so hopefully i make more friends.
Spend time in the smoking areas at the clubs, even if you don’t smoke - i met plenty of people in smoking areas during 2022 freshers that i’m still friends with now!
Original post by Anonymous
Turning 19 soon, going to uni. Haven't dated anyone, haven't had an actual crush. I blame this on an all girls school. Basically no experience when it comes tor romance. Most girls in my school have a body count over like 4 and I feel so pathetic having none. I do wanna save myself for the right person but it's just embarrassing. How do I up my rizz?
Also going into a male dominated course so I'm just scared of guys in general.
Also going into a male dominated course so I'm just scared of guys in general.
Lol don't stress about it, there's no shame in not having a body count, if anything in this day an age its something to be proud of with how young some kids hook up, but yeah don't worry just be yourself and someone will come around
Original post by Anonymous
Turning 19 soon, going to uni. Haven't dated anyone, haven't had an actual crush. I blame this on an all girls school. Basically no experience when it comes tor romance. Most girls in my school have a body count over like 4 and I feel so pathetic having none. I do wanna save myself for the right person but it's just embarrassing. How do I up my rizz?
Also going into a male dominated course so I'm just scared of guys in general.
Also going into a male dominated course so I'm just scared of guys in general.
I hope you get okay. I'm 20 so much same. Jesus loves everyone.
Original post by Anonymous
Turning 19 soon, going to uni. Haven't dated anyone, haven't had an actual crush. I blame this on an all girls school. Basically no experience when it comes tor romance. Most girls in my school have a body count over like 4 and I feel so pathetic having none. I do wanna save myself for the right person but it's just embarrassing. How do I up my rizz?
Also going into a male dominated course so I'm just scared of guys in general.
Also going into a male dominated course so I'm just scared of guys in general.
You're 19 you haven't even gotten out of the blocks yet. Don't be scared of guys. I know being at an all-girls school has disadvantaged you when it comes to relationship with males, but there's nothing to be afraid of. You'll probably find someone you're attracted to on the course or somewhere else. I think by the time you're 30 you'll have it all together and these concerns will feel so childish to you when you look back. You'll get what you want, the fact it concerns you now is a good sign that you'll find what you seek.
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