Can a 35 year old go clubbing, make friends with women in their early-mid 20s?
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Incredibly weird to be actively going out of your way to look for this age group. It’s one thing if it happens naturally, but looking specifically for younger women? Weird.
Original post by Rakas21
If memory serves the highest age intervals according to Tinder data is 23-25 for women and 38-40 for men so yes, there are a lot of young women attracted to men near your age. It's obviously more of a gamble to approach in RL though.
No, girls are ALWAYS attracted to boys similar age. Drop your narratives
Hey all, look believe it or not we all go through our twenties and then go up and up and then Die ok, we dont carry a label for the rest of our life for a specific age.
We are people, souls, creative, have ideas and wonderful things about us. Your age does not define you its your words, and deeds... And thats what matters, ive met people of 40 + who are stil highly imature and just horrible - same with with 20 somethings, and then ive met the most wonderfull people of 20 ish , 50 ish and 80 ish. Fact is you will all go through age so dont filter against age only, filter out the detritas based on their words and deeds and get real.
For the yogi side of things there is age linked to past lives, so a 50 year old could be a young soul even and a 19 year old an old one, hence why sometimes you talk to an idiotic old person who is just yong in their journey and not very bright either 🙂 and then a 21 year old whos spot on
We are people, souls, creative, have ideas and wonderful things about us. Your age does not define you its your words, and deeds... And thats what matters, ive met people of 40 + who are stil highly imature and just horrible - same with with 20 somethings, and then ive met the most wonderfull people of 20 ish , 50 ish and 80 ish. Fact is you will all go through age so dont filter against age only, filter out the detritas based on their words and deeds and get real.
For the yogi side of things there is age linked to past lives, so a 50 year old could be a young soul even and a 19 year old an old one, hence why sometimes you talk to an idiotic old person who is just yong in their journey and not very bright either 🙂 and then a 21 year old whos spot on
Original post by VIKI888
No, girls are ALWAYS attracted to boys similar age. Drop your narratives
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Girls, maybe yeah... WOMEN, on the other hand...
Original post by Old Skool Freak
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Girls, maybe yeah... WOMEN, on the other hand...
Girls, maybe yeah... WOMEN, on the other hand...
Girls in their 20s and 30s are definitely young and they are attracted to young people of very similar age
I’ve noticed recently this is so common, tons of mid 30 people going clubbing
Original post by NeoIan
lol 🙂 mid thirties isn’t that old though right ?
Old is 70+, didn’t you know?
Original post by VIKI888
Old is 70+, didn’t you know?
Well yea 🙂
Original post by Ciel.
typical pred behaviour : (
lol
)
Original post by Little pecker
I’ve noticed recently this is so common, tons of mid 30 people going clubbing
I can't think of anything worse than being in a hot sweaty cramped club with dodgy music but it's probably truer to say that your seeing a generation which never stopped.
This makes some sense if you consider the higher single population, lower home ownership and marriage rates and in general, a lot of the pressures that would have previously stopped you.
Original post by Anonymous
Most men don't only care about "unblemished skin" and "fertility". Nor are most women choosing their partners because they have more money. Just because you might do this or know people who do this doesn't mean that you can stereotype everybody else as being this superficial.
You live in a sheltered world then - most men and women do care about those things/ The poster was talking about the majority.
Original post by Anonymous
Incredibly weird to be actively going out of your way to look for this age group. It’s one thing if it happens naturally, but looking specifically for younger women? Weird.
He said early-mid 20s. They are adults? What's weird about an adult approaching other adults?
Original post by VIKI888
No, girls are ALWAYS attracted to boys similar age. Drop your narratives
Women are attracted to men who earn good money, who are confident, have leadership qualities, and can provide for them etc because these are dark triad traits. Men in their late 20s, early 30s are more likely to have these things.
Original post by Anonymous
Women are attracted to men who earn good money, who are confident, have leadership qualities, and can provide for them etc because these are dark triad traits.
Women have no interest in the yakuza.
Original post by Hannahblossom
"Dark triad traits". What? 🤨
Didn't you know? Chinese Mafia are running things now.
P.S. Ninhao 😁
Original post by Hannahblossom
Ninhao!
Looked it up and this is what I found:
The dark triad personality refers to three negative personality traits, which all share malevolent features:
This isn't what's being referred to though, right? Feel like I'm missing something 
Looked it up and this is what I found:
The dark triad personality refers to three negative personality traits, which all share malevolent features:
1.
Narcissism (entitled self-importance),
2.
Machiavellianism (strategic exploitation and deceit),
3.
Subclinical psychopathy (callousness and cynicism)
Slight play on words on my part (I like puns lol).
This is the triad definition I was referring to
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triad_(organized_crime)
Original post by Rakas21
I can't think of anything worse than being in a hot sweaty cramped club with dodgy music but it's probably truer to say that your seeing a generation which never stopped.
This makes some sense if you consider the higher single population, lower home ownership and marriage rates and in general, a lot of the pressures that would have previously stopped you.
This makes some sense if you consider the higher single population, lower home ownership and marriage rates and in general, a lot of the pressures that would have previously stopped you.
Each to their own, I definitely can see myself clubbing when i’m 35 nowadays ngl
you will all be old soon enough guys and girls, get over it, time passes quickly and all there is is love at the end, the rest dont matter 🙂 Good words - good deeds , thats it. We can all look fabulous if we want to with enough makeup or face jobs but honestly it wont change whats inside, or the experieince of being with that person.....
Good words good deeds .
Good words good deeds .
Original post by Anonymous
I'm 35 years old.
I've done reasonably well for myself in life. I exercise, buy nice clothes, read a lot, improve myself.
I have been approaching, conversing with women and it has been positive so far.
It's all about confidence, communication etc.
I'm charismatic, intelligent with a lot of good qualities.
Surely there will be a few women or some women who are mature for their age.
I still think this is possible.
I've done reasonably well for myself in life. I exercise, buy nice clothes, read a lot, improve myself.
I have been approaching, conversing with women and it has been positive so far.
It's all about confidence, communication etc.
I'm charismatic, intelligent with a lot of good qualities.
Surely there will be a few women or some women who are mature for their age.
I still think this is possible.
Yes defintly! Age is just a number at the end of the day, I’m 21 and one my best friends is in her 30s🙂
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