He cheated two times
So my boyfriend cheated on me two times. He slept with the same girl. So basically, I have took him back. The first time he cheated I didn’t let it bother me like at all. I understand some people make most mistakes I do. I simply didn’t care so I took them back. the second time he did it really hurted. I been trying to put it behind me but that’s all I think about is him cheating on me with that girl. I am a virgin, I never had sex before and he keeps on initiating us having sex. He makes it seem like if I have sex with him, it going to prevent him from cheating. The only reason why he cheated is because we didn’t have sex. I don’t know if I wanna have sex with him
Don't have sex with him; break up with him.
Shouldn't have taken him back after the first time he cheated, let alone the second. A mistake? Like, oops, me and this girl lost all our clothes as we fell onto a bed and I ended up naked on top of her and had sex? No, it was a deliberate act.
Shouldn't have taken him back after the first time he cheated, let alone the second. A mistake? Like, oops, me and this girl lost all our clothes as we fell onto a bed and I ended up naked on top of her and had sex? No, it was a deliberate act.
Get out before it’s too late. Cheaters never change and it’s not just a ‘mistake’ to get off with another girl. You are stupid if you stay with him. Stand strong and leave the relationship before you let a man like that take your virginity. You’d heavily regret doing it with him if so. Saying he cheated because you wouldn’t have sex with him is utterly a disgusting mindset on his behalf. Please leave. You’re better off without him fully. He sounds horrible.
Original post by Anonymous
So my boyfriend cheated on me two times. He slept with the same girl. So basically, I have took him back. The first time he cheated I didn’t let it bother me like at all. I understand some people make most mistakes I do. I simply didn’t care so I took them back. the second time he did it really hurted. I been trying to put it behind me but that’s all I think about is him cheating on me with that girl. I am a virgin, I never had sex before and he keeps on initiating us having sex. He makes it seem like if I have sex with him, it going to prevent him from cheating. The only reason why he cheated is because we didn’t have sex. I don’t know if I wanna have sex with him
Bin him why’d you take him back in the first place the guy a cheat he probably slept with the girl to have it with her probably for all you know.
Original post by Anonymous
So my boyfriend cheated on me two times. He slept with the same girl. So basically, I have took him back. The first time he cheated I didn’t let it bother me like at all. I understand some people make most mistakes I do. I simply didn’t care so I took them back. the second time he did it really hurted. I been trying to put it behind me but that’s all I think about is him cheating on me with that girl. I am a virgin, I never had sex before and he keeps on initiating us having sex. He makes it seem like if I have sex with him, it going to prevent him from cheating. The only reason why he cheated is because we didn’t have sex. I don’t know if I wanna have sex with him
People do not cheat, because they do not get enough sex or similar... people do either cheat,
a) because they are hopelessly unrealistic and think they need to follow their feelings, because every crush is a sign or because they do not get, that they need to work on their own relationship
b) they cannot communicate or are to scared to break up before having secured an alternative --> shortly they cannot communicate
c) sex addicts / serial cheaters / some other deeper rooted problem, but that is rare
That means for you, that you guys either need couple therapy or in case this is a relationship which is quite young or it is obviously toxic or ... break up and use your probably young age to find somebody who can communicate and is willing to put in the work a relationship needs.
If he says, he cheats, because you do not want to have sex --> run!!! That is a super huge red flag!!!
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Original post by Anonymous
So my boyfriend cheated on me two times. He slept with the same girl. So basically, I have took him back. The first time he cheated I didn’t let it bother me like at all. I understand some people make most mistakes I do. I simply didn’t care so I took them back. the second time he did it really hurted. I been trying to put it behind me but that’s all I think about is him cheating on me with that girl. I am a virgin, I never had sex before and he keeps on initiating us having sex. He makes it seem like if I have sex with him, it going to prevent him from cheating. The only reason why he cheated is because we didn’t have sex. I don’t know if I wanna have sex with him
Hey girl
I’m really sorry to hear this, but to be honest if he truly really loved you he would’ve waited until you were comfortable to have sex with him. He gave a lame excuse of cheating on you because you don’t have sex with him. He is just a horny man with no manners in my opinion.
If a man truly loved a women he wouldn’t Ever do that.
Hope it helps🥹
Original post by Anonymous
So my boyfriend cheated on me two times. He slept with the same girl. So basically, I have took him back. The first time he cheated I didn’t let it bother me like at all. I understand some people make most mistakes I do. I simply didn’t care so I took them back. the second time he did it really hurted. I been trying to put it behind me but that’s all I think about is him cheating on me with that girl. I am a virgin, I never had sex before and he keeps on initiating us having sex. He makes it seem like if I have sex with him, it going to prevent him from cheating. The only reason why he cheated is because we didn’t have sex. I don’t know if I wanna have sex with him
Don’t take him back. He messed up and you need to let him go and find someone that will respect you and treat you right. you need to heal from this relationship and focus on yourself before you get into another relationship
Original post by ALIeHSANI
Don’t take him back. He messed up and you need to let him go and find someone that will respect you and treat you right. you need to heal from this relationship and focus on yourself before you get into another relationship
Don’t feel pressured by having sex. You know when you are ready
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