I dont think I can make friends at uni

Hey everyone,
I'm about to start university soon, and I’m already feeling anxious about making friends. I’ve always been more on the introverted side, and the thought of being in a completely new environment where I don’t know anyone is pretty overwhelming. It feels like everyone else will be more outgoing or have no problem jumping into new social circles, while I’ll be left behind.
I keep worrying that I won’t be able to connect with people or find my own group of friends. I want to have a good time at uni, but I’m scared that I’ll end up feeling lonely and isolated.
If anyone has been through something similar, I’d love to hear your advice or any tips on how to approach making friends when you're not the most extroverted person. Did things get better for you? How did you push through that initial anxiety? I’d really appreciate any support or encouragement!
Thanks in advance!

Hey, I totally understand where you're coming from. Starting university can be really daunting, especially when you're not naturally outgoing. But I want you to know that a lot of people feel the exact same way as you do, even if it doesn’t seem like it on the surface.
One thing to keep in mind is that making friends doesn’t have to happen overnight. Sometimes it takes a little while to find the right people. Don’t pressure yourself to immediately fit into a big group or become super social from day one. Start small—maybe by talking to someone sitting next to you in a lecture, joining a club related to your interests, or attending smaller meetups. You might find that there are more people like you out there than you think!
Also, remember that everyone is new and probably just as nervous as you are. Sometimes, a simple smile or a “Hi, I’m [your name]” can open up a whole conversation. And even if it feels a bit awkward at first, most people are just happy someone reached out.
You’ve got this! Give yourself time, be patient, and don’t be too hard on yourself. University is a place for growth, and finding your people might take a bit, but it will happen. Hang in there, and good luck!

Hey, just wanted to add to this great advice! I completely agree that starting small and being patient with yourself is key. It’s super common to feel anxious about making friends when starting university—many people are in the same boat.
I also wanted to mention an app called unidingo that I've heard about. It’s designed to help students connect with each other based on shared interests, classes, or hobbies. It might be worth checking out if you're looking for another way to meet people who are also looking to make friends. Sometimes, connecting online first can make it easier to start a conversation in person later.
Just thought I’d put it out there in case it helps anyone! Good luck to everyone starting uni soon—you’ve got this!

Hey, I totally understand where you're coming from. Starting university can be really daunting, especially when you're not naturally outgoing. But I want you to know that a lot of people feel the exact same way as you do, even if it doesn’t seem like it on the surface.
One thing to keep in mind is that making friends doesn’t have to happen overnight. Sometimes it takes a little while to find the right people. Don’t pressure yourself to immediately fit into a big group or become super social from day one. Start small—maybe by talking to someone sitting next to you in a lecture, joining a club related to your interests, or attending smaller meetups. You might find that there are more people like you out there than you think!
Also, remember that everyone is new and probably just as nervous as you are. Sometimes, a simple smile or a “Hi, I’m [your name]” can open up a whole conversation. And even if it feels a bit awkward at first, most people are just happy someone reached out.
You’ve got this! Give yourself time, be patient, and don’t be too hard on yourself. University is a place for growth, and finding your people might take a bit, but it will happen. Hang in there, and good luck!

Hey, I actually used Unidingo last year when I started uni, and it was pretty helpful! It made it easier to find people with similar interests and start conversations without that initial awkwardness. I met a few people through the app who are now my friends, so I’d definitely recommend giving it a try!
That said, I wouldn’t rely on it completely for making friends. It's a great starting point, but nothing really beats meeting people in person, whether it's through classes, clubs, or even just random encounters on campus. The app can help break the ice, but try to use it as one of many ways to connect with people. Being open and approachable in real-life situations is still really important.
Hope this helps, and good luck to everyone starting out!

unidingo was decently big at my uni - they had society events and stuff too. But you still need to have the courage to reach out to people there and it can be tough. I met a lot of friend on TSR too, this is a good place to be - check out the chat area and introduce yourself!! TSR on top >>>

I also met some friends on TSR

Hey everyone,
I'm about to start university soon, and I’m already feeling anxious about making friends. I’ve always been more on the introverted side, and the thought of being in a completely new environment where I don’t know anyone is pretty overwhelming. It feels like everyone else will be more outgoing or have no problem jumping into new social circles, while I’ll be left behind.
I keep worrying that I won’t be able to connect with people or find my own group of friends. I want to have a good time at uni, but I’m scared that I’ll end up feeling lonely and isolated.
If anyone has been through something similar, I’d love to hear your advice or any tips on how to approach making friends when you're not the most extroverted person. Did things get better for you? How did you push through that initial anxiety? I’d really appreciate any support or encouragement!
Thanks in advance!