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What should I do?

Hi so I started talking to a guy online. He popped up to me and we got on really well, had a lot of flirtation but also we had a lot in common and similar values in life.
Then suddenly we started talking about food on a first date and he told me his and I replied and I got no response but he read it. I gave a follow up message a day later with something flirty related to it but got left on read. I'm not sure what to do. I thought we got on so well and I am terrible over message so that doesn't help but part of me is thinking maybe I should just be honest and say I'd like to get to know him better and ask for a phone/video call? I know that is his preferred method of communication also although we haven't gone down that route yet.
I just feel like this may make me seem really clingy and desperate but I'm not like this with other guys at all, the truth is, I felt a spark and I just want to explore that and I don't really have anything to lose. But I feel like if i'm honest with him, maybe he'd appreciate that idk. So I need help as I'm not sure what to do! Any advice would be great.
Original post by Anonymous
Hi so I started talking to a guy online. He popped up to me and we got on really well, had a lot of flirtation but also we had a lot in common and similar values in life.
Then suddenly we started talking about food on a first date and he told me his and I replied and I got no response but he read it. I gave a follow up message a day later with something flirty related to it but got left on read. I'm not sure what to do. I thought we got on so well and I am terrible over message so that doesn't help but part of me is thinking maybe I should just be honest and say I'd like to get to know him better and ask for a phone/video call? I know that is his preferred method of communication also although we haven't gone down that route yet.
I just feel like this may make me seem really clingy and desperate but I'm not like this with other guys at all, the truth is, I felt a spark and I just want to explore that and I don't really have anything to lose. But I feel like if i'm honest with him, maybe he'd appreciate that idk. So I need help as I'm not sure what to do! Any advice would be great.

This may sound bad, but he stopped messaging you as soon as you replied to his question about food on a first date. So what was that food? Surely, it can't have been so strange that he decided to break contact?

Was it eels? Please tell me it wasn't eels? :wink:

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