I recently broke up with a guy I had been dating for a few months, and who I thought things were going well with, because I saw the porn he was into and I just wanted peoples thoughts as to whether I overreacted or not. I'm not against porn, though I understand why some people are, and it's usually not a big issue for me but for this guy it was the type of porn he was watching.
Bearing in mind we are both white (we live in a rural and very white part of the UK) he was watching essentially exclusively interracial porn, where the women was white and the man was Black. As a white man, why would you exclusively watch that? I thought the whole point of porn was imagining yourself in the scene, but the guys in the scene are literally nothing like him (though many of the girls had my features.)
I've never really watched this kind of stuff before but he was watching stuff from studios like Blacked dot com who I think only make stuff with white girls and Black men and where it focuses on how "Black guys are better" and situations where they are stealing white guys girls.
It's not that I didn't appreciate the scenes (To be honest some were super hot. I've never even thought about Black guys in that way but it's made me very curious!) but it was the fact it was that my white boyfriend liked them was a huge turn off. I don't want to sound mean but it made him come across as so weak and passive.
Am I completely overreacting? I can't help how it made me feel. Is it at all common for white guys to be into that kind of stuff? Why?