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I dumped a guy because of the porn he wanted to watch. Was I justified?

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Original post by ageshallnot
Put what in where?!?!? 😆😳😆😳😆

If you ask for two vodka cokes and get doubles but you want it bit stronger by adding another, they will give it to you on the side as they can put the extra on in the double shots already. I did it to a few people in the past before.
Original post by Faultybot
If you ask for two vodka cokes and get doubles but you want it bit stronger by adding another, they will give it to you on the side as they can put the extra on in the double shots already. I did it to a few people in the past before.

Whoosh!!!! 😆
Original post by ageshallnot
Doubles, I assume?

Just one guy, to start. I'm not crazy! 🤣
Original post by Emily's Teapot
Just one guy, to start. I'm not crazy! 🤣

Go crazy your young I'm sure your younger than @ageshallnot
Original post by Faultybot
Go crazy your young I'm sure your younger than @ageshallnot

*You're 😃
You can dump someone for any reason, but you will struggle to find someone who doesn’t watch this
Original post by Little pecker
You can dump someone for any reason, but you will struggle to find someone who doesn’t watch this

I don't think @Emily's Teapot is too bothered by the mere fact that he watches porn... the issue here is more the type / genre of porn he's watching and the implications of it. He's a white guy who's exclusively watching black guys with white girls who resemble her.

From her perspective, all this makes him seem weak and submissive in her eyes, as he is white himself.
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Original post by Little pecker
You can dump someone for any reason, but you will struggle to find someone who doesn’t watch this



Original post by Old Skool Freak
I don't think @Emily's Teapot is too bothered by the mere fact that he watches porn... the issue here is more the type / genre of porn he's watching and the implications of it. He's a white guy who's exclusively watching black guys with white girls who resemble her.
From her perspective, all this makes him seem weak and submissive in her eyes, as he is white himself.

Yeh exactly. It would make more sense if he watched lesbian stuff or just normal stuff.

Why do so many white guys like watched Blacked porn?
Original post by Emily's Teapot
Yeh exactly. It would make more sense if he watched lesbian stuff or just normal stuff.
Why do so many white guys like watched Blacked porn?

How do you know it's so many?
Original post by ageshallnot
How do you know it's so many?

I asked this same question on a less savory chat room and got loads of white guys messaging me saying they liked it. On Twitter there are loads that are obsessed with it. It's kind of unrepeatable and disgusting lol.

And statistically isn't it one of the most searched topics?
Original post by Emily's Teapot
I asked this same question on a less savory chat room and got loads of white guys messaging me saying they liked it. On Twitter there are loads that are obsessed with it. It's kind of unrepeatable and disgusting lol.
And statistically isn't it one of the most searched topics?

I bow to your superior knowledge of this topic! 😆

But you like it...
Obviously you are not a woman, but a man, and writing this post because you have a perverted fetish. This is a site for children. You are sick in the head. Please seek help immediately.
Original post by Emily's Teapot
Yeh exactly. It would make more sense if he watched lesbian stuff or just normal stuff.
Why do so many white guys like watched Blacked porn?

Not sure if you've seen my first response in this thread (reply 29), but I did offer some theories, that may or may not be true.

Alternatively, it's something to do with the whole hip hop culture that's embodied the world in the last few years... including all the subgenres (e.g. reggae / dancehall; grime; afrobeat's etc.).
Original post by Emily's Teapot
Yeh exactly. It would make more sense if he watched lesbian stuff or just normal stuff.
Why do so many white guys like watched Blacked porn?

That is normal stuff
Original post by Little pecker
That is normal stuff

Instead of sounding like a broken record, why don't you tell us all what the fascination is with WHITE guys getting off on watching BLACK guys with white women?

I've tried in my first post, but TBH, I still don't really get it.
Original post by Old Skool Freak
Instead of sounding like a broken record, why don't you tell us all what the fascination is with WHITE guys getting off on watching BLACK guys with white women?
I've tried in my first post, but TBH, I still don't really get it.

Media push I guess, then it becomes what people like.
Original post by Emily's Teapot
Yeh exactly. It would make more sense if he watched lesbian stuff or just normal stuff.
Why do so many white guys like watched Blacked porn?

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Original post by Emily's Teapot
I recently broke up with a guy I had been dating for a few months, and who I thought things were going well with, because I saw the porn he was into and I just wanted peoples thoughts as to whether I overreacted or not. I'm not against porn, though I understand why some people are, and it's usually not a big issue for me but for this guy it was the type of porn he was watching.
Bearing in mind we are both white (we live in a rural and very white part of the UK) he was watching essentially exclusively interracial porn, where the women was white and the man was Black. As a white man, why would you exclusively watch that? I thought the whole point of porn was imagining yourself in the scene, but the guys in the scene are literally nothing like him (though many of the girls had my features.)
I've never really watched this kind of stuff before but he was watching stuff from studios like Blacked dot com who I think only make stuff with white girls and Black men and where it focuses on how "Black guys are better" and situations where they are stealing white guys girls.
It's not that I didn't appreciate the scenes (To be honest some were super hot. I've never even thought about Black guys in that way but it's made me very curious!) but it was the fact it was that my white boyfriend liked them was a huge turn off. I don't want to sound mean but it made him come across as so weak and passive.
Am I completely overreacting? I can't help how it made me feel. Is it at all common for white guys to be into that kind of stuff? Why?

🤣🤣

what is this!!

but sure if he is weak and passive fair enough if you break up with him
Original post by Emily's Teapot
I recently broke up with a guy I had been dating for a few months, and who I thought things were going well with, because I saw the porn he was into and I just wanted peoples thoughts as to whether I overreacted or not. I'm not against porn, though I understand why some people are, and it's usually not a big issue for me but for this guy it was the type of porn he was watching.
Bearing in mind we are both white (we live in a rural and very white part of the UK) he was watching essentially exclusively interracial porn, where the women was white and the man was Black. As a white man, why would you exclusively watch that? I thought the whole point of porn was imagining yourself in the scene, but the guys in the scene are literally nothing like him (though many of the girls had my features.)
I've never really watched this kind of stuff before but he was watching stuff from studios like Blacked dot com who I think only make stuff with white girls and Black men and where it focuses on how "Black guys are better" and situations where they are stealing white guys girls.
It's not that I didn't appreciate the scenes (To be honest some were super hot. I've never even thought about Black guys in that way but it's made me very curious!) but it was the fact it was that my white boyfriend liked them was a huge turn off. I don't want to sound mean but it made him come across as so weak and passive.
Am I completely overreacting? I can't help how it made me feel. Is it at all common for white guys to be into that kind of stuff? Why?
You are 100% justified that **** is weird. I feel like a lot of people in the replies dont really understand how that sort of porn promotes damaging stereotypes abt black men being hyper sexual / violent and targeting white women who are seen as more “weak” or “pure”. It just signifies a whole bunch of red flags
Original post by Little pecker
Media push I guess, then it becomes what people like.

What media push?

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