should I be stay forward with potential relationships

Hey. I’m wondering if I should straight forward o
During talking stage. Like I done it before but I always get left on sent am I being too much. they ask me what am I looking for and I tell the em two things communicate and loyalty and that’s it. is that too much

Reply 1

Zarek

They are pretty reasonable things to wish for and it’s good to be straightforward. Possibly mentioning loyalty at the outset comes across a bit serious. Perhaps try some more lighthearted words that suggest you want something more than casual. Having something special.. sharing good times..

Reply 2

ALIeHSANI

Original post by Zarek

Fair enough. Maybe I should change my wording

Reply 3

Surnia

How about you meet up and actually talk, rather than rely on messaging?

Reply 4

ALIeHSANI

Original post by Surnia

How about you meet up and actually talk, rather than rely on messaging?

Try to do that. We agree then I get aired after

Reply 5

Rakas21

Original post by ALIeHSANI

Fair enough. Maybe I should change my wording

I actually wouldn't.

If your looking for a relationship rather than a man who will pump and dump or put you in a situationship then you shouldn't be afraid to scare a few men off with reasonable standards.

If your female it's likely you have a sufficiently wide net that you can get plenty of men and filter them without leaving yourself short.