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should I be stay forward with potential relationships

Hey. I’m wondering if I should straight forward o
During talking stage. Like I done it before but I always get left on sent am I being too much. they ask me what am I looking for and I tell the em two things communicate and loyalty and that’s it. is that too much

Reply 1

They are pretty reasonable things to wish for and it’s good to be straightforward. Possibly mentioning loyalty at the outset comes across a bit serious. Perhaps try some more lighthearted words that suggest you want something more than casual. Having something special.. sharing good times..

Reply 2

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by Zarek
They are pretty reasonable things to wish for and it’s good to be straightforward. Possibly mentioning loyalty at the outset comes across a bit serious. Perhaps try some more lighthearted words that suggest you want something more than casual. Having something special.. sharing good times..


Fair enough. Maybe I should change my wording

Reply 3

How about you meet up and actually talk, rather than rely on messaging?

Reply 4

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by Surnia
How about you meet up and actually talk, rather than rely on messaging?


Try to do that. We agree then I get aired after

Reply 5

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by ALIeHSANI
Fair enough. Maybe I should change my wording

I actually wouldn't.

If your looking for a relationship rather than a man who will pump and dump or put you in a situationship then you shouldn't be afraid to scare a few men off with reasonable standards.

If your female it's likely you have a sufficiently wide net that you can get plenty of men and filter them without leaving yourself short.

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