His behavior changed ldr

so at first he seems soo interested but now he doesn’t even seem that interested. He used to message me so quickly now he barely does. He takes hourssss. He doesn’t keep to his word anymore too. Less good nights and good mornings. I feel like I put in so much effort while he doesn’t. We have been together for a month. I feel like he could be cheating but I don't know. I don't want to be delusional.

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

gna sound a bit crazy but if u don’t feel like ur being reciprocated chat to him ab it, if he gets rude then leave 🙏

Reply 2

heavenmade

Original post by Anonymous

gna sound a bit crazy but if u don’t feel like ur being reciprocated chat to him ab it, if he gets rude then leave 🙏

I talked to him about it a while back, he wasn't rude about it but he kept his word for a few days and went back to the same behaviour later on

Reply 3

Surnia

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How well do you really know this guy? If it's long distance, did you even go out on dates together? How long are you likely to be apart?

(edited 10 months ago)

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

This is the exact same thing that I’m going through, I’ve been with mine 1.8months and I really love him, want it to work. Although we are doing different time zones and it’s for travelling. Been 3 months now but I cba to keep asking for effort to be put in, I will give the same effort back he gives me.

Reply 5

ROTL 94

Original post by Anonymous

Whether the relationship is face to face or LDR you should never have to beg for them to put in effort, it should be something they just want to do without prompting. Sounds like a conversation needs to be had and your future with him reconsidered if you're having this issue only 3 months in.