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LADIES HELP. I need relationship advice.

So there's this lovely girl in my life. I'm absolutely head over heels for her. But I can't tell if she feels the same. I get mixed signals. I'm the only person she actually texts often. And she's written me letters on holidays telling me how much I mean to her. But when I asked her view on relationships she said she never thought about it and probably won't for a while. I wasn't specific about with me just general view. We both have funny nicknames for eachother and spend most of our time talking to eachother. And she got me flowers on my birthday and valentines. Made them herself actually. Yet still no verbal or text saying she actually has romantic feelings for me. I'll take any advice 🥲 How can she act this way if she might not feel any romantic feelings towards me.
Original post by Anonymous
So there's this lovely girl in my life. I'm absolutely head over heels for her. But I can't tell if she feels the same. I get mixed signals. I'm the only person she actually texts often. And she's written me letters on holidays telling me how much I mean to her. But when I asked her view on relationships she said she never thought about it and probably won't for a while. I wasn't specific about with me just general view. We both have funny nicknames for eachother and spend most of our time talking to eachother. And she got me flowers on my birthday and valentines. Made them herself actually. Yet still no verbal or text saying she actually has romantic feelings for me. I'll take any advice 🥲 How can she act this way if she might not feel any romantic feelings towards me.

she. does. trust. me
Original post by pinkpanda1
she. does. trust. me


Even if she has told me of another man she danced with? And wrote I'm her friend in one of the letters?
danced with? doesnt matter. if she bothered to mentino u ina letter...
Original post by Anonymous
So there's this lovely girl in my life. I'm absolutely head over heels for her. But I can't tell if she feels the same. I get mixed signals. I'm the only person she actually texts often. And she's written me letters on holidays telling me how much I mean to her. But when I asked her view on relationships she said she never thought about it and probably won't for a while. I wasn't specific about with me just general view. We both have funny nicknames for eachother and spend most of our time talking to eachother. And she got me flowers on my birthday and valentines. Made them herself actually. Yet still no verbal or text saying she actually has romantic feelings for me. I'll take any advice 🥲 How can she act this way if she might not feel any romantic feelings towards me.

She went to the time of writing you a letter on holiday.

Stop making excuses and go get her.
Original post by Anonymous
So there's this lovely girl in my life. I'm absolutely head over heels for her. But I can't tell if she feels the same. I get mixed signals. I'm the only person she actually texts often. And she's written me letters on holidays telling me how much I mean to her. But when I asked her view on relationships she said she never thought about it and probably won't for a while. I wasn't specific about with me just general view. We both have funny nicknames for eachother and spend most of our time talking to eachother. And she got me flowers on my birthday and valentines. Made them herself actually. Yet still no verbal or text saying she actually has romantic feelings for me. I'll take any advice 🥲 How can she act this way if she might not feel any romantic feelings towards me.

Sorry man, but I think she only sees you as close bbf

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