Got into GC beef and scared to go into uni

hi guys so this is a little weird of a question but like I'm going to a university in like 2 weeks. There's insta and snap gcs about it and I thought it'd be a good idea to dm many people to try make friends. However some of them ended rlly badly like some I got into some beef with and some I tried to move onto and it just ended badly. I kind of shared a decent bit of detail abt myself like my upbringing and like past relationships and I'm scared if when I go to uni everyone's gonna know about me. Idk why I got into beef as soon as it happened I shoulda just stopped cuz this is such a bad position to be in especially cuz I haven't even gone to uni. I'm scared everyone's gonna know and not wanna be friends with me :frown:

please help guys I'm genuinely rlly sad Abt it and I don't want to be alone and depressed

Reply 1

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Hi @Bubbnugg ,

Firstly, try not to be stressed. Everyone makes mistakes - don't waste your time looking back, try to focus on all the exciting times ahead! I would say that you really don't need to worry, uni is a new start where you can wipe a slate clean. Perhaps try talking to a few people you've been in touch with online, they'll soon see that you're a good, friendly person and they certainly won't hate you (it takes more than a few off-exchanges online to form an opinion of someone!) - besides, there will be loads of people you can get to know on your course, in any societies you join, others in your flat. So you won't be alone. Please try to keep your head up, because you've worked really hard, have such an exciting time ahead and don't deserve this to spoil it :smile: