What are the psychological aggression that you face a lot as ethnic minority?

These are the jibes that I hear every week, which have caused me a great deal of hard feelings:
“Where are you REALLY from [after you tell them the town/county you live in]?”
“You don’t look like White. Are you really British? How many years have you been here actually?”
“Your English is brilliant! Where are you REALLY from?”
“XXX has a British passport, BUT he/she comes from...”
“Nationality is not the same as ethnicity. Just because you are a British citizen, it doesn’t make you automatically British!”
...

"Are you indian?" (when the word muslim is mentioned 😂 coming from a place of genuine ignorance i think)
just remember these people making these comments are clearly uneducated
and british isn't an ethnicity

The fact that their undereducation is causing great harm to non-White British folks as those racist stereotypes are institutionalised, which socialise professionals into excluding or mistreating non-White British folks and causing them hardship, especially in terms of housing and employment, which is deeply unfair and pernicious. It’s hard to simply laugh it off as undereducation when they aren’t the ones to suffer the consequences and be forced to live like subhumans.

The fact that their undereducation is causing great harm to non-White British folks as those racist stereotypes are institutionalised, which socialise professionals into excluding or mistreating non-White British folks and causing them hardship, especially in terms of housing and employment, which is deeply unfair and pernicious. It’s hard to simply laugh it off as undereducation when they aren’t the ones to suffer the consequences and be forced to live like subhumans.

I’m a non white British person but I live in a very ethnically diverse area so I don’t experience these micro-aggressions very often so my reply won’t be very helpful, I just wanted to say your vocabulary and literary fluency is outstanding, I really like how you get your point across through your writing in a clear and concise manner.

Haha I hope that is true. My English isn’t as good as native speakers for sure.

Really??🤣🤣
You are quite humble I’ll give you that, I assure you though your English is leagues better than many native people i know so don’t undermine yourself.

These are the jibes that I hear every week, which have caused me a great deal of hard feelings:
“Where are you REALLY from [after you tell them the town/county you live in]?”
“You don’t look like White. Are you really British? How many years have you been here actually?”
“Your English is brilliant! Where are you REALLY from?”
“XXX has a British passport, BUT he/she comes from...”
“Nationality is not the same as ethnicity. Just because you are a British citizen, it doesn’t make you automatically British!”
...

Sometimes when I had to mention our nationality to someone I would tell them im british (bc of the passport) but ethnically indian they look at me up and down as if they're double checking 🤣
even with religion, when I mention im a muslim they make that one joke (if yk, yk)

These are the jibes that I hear every week, which have caused me a great deal of hard feelings:
“Where are you REALLY from [after you tell them the town/county you live in]?”
“You don’t look like White. Are you really British? How many years have you been here actually?”
“Your English is brilliant! Where are you REALLY from?”
“XXX has a British passport, BUT he/she comes from...”
“Nationality is not the same as ethnicity. Just because you are a British citizen, it doesn’t make you automatically British!”
...

Might not officially count but the surprise at my semi-posh London-y accent even though I’m not white.