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need advice on this girl

she was talking about her exes and shes been with 3, but for some reason like it made me sad. is that just a me problem and how do i become ok with that, coz surely it makes sense shes gonna be with people before me but it still annoys me.
Well I get how it annoys you because you don’t like the thought of imaging her with others but I think you should instead focus on how she is with you now and that’s all that matters
Original post by Smart282
Well I get how it annoys you because you don’t like the thought of imaging her with others but I think you should instead focus on how she is with you now and that’s all that matters

yh thats fair, i did say to her woah i didnt know i was talking to a girl like that, and she was like ok fine dont talk to me then. like she got really offended or something
Original post by Anonymous
she was talking about her exes and shes been with 3, but for some reason like it made me sad. is that just a me problem and how do i become ok with that, coz surely it makes sense shes gonna be with people before me but it still annoys me.


What made her bring them up
Did she bring them up w a bad intention like making u jealous or asking u to give her more
Or was it unintentional and bought them cuz u asked or smh ?
Original post by Anonymous
What made her bring them up
Did she bring them up w a bad intention like making u jealous or asking u to give her more
Or was it unintentional and bought them cuz u asked or smh ?

nah it wasnt to hurt me she and i were just talking about it and are past and i guess it just made me sad
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Original post by Anonymous
yh thats fair, i did say to her woah i didnt know i was talking to a girl like that, and she was like ok fine dont talk to me then. like she got really offended or something

'A girl like that'; a girl like what?

I'm not surprised she was offended.
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Original post by Anonymous
she was talking about her exes and shes been with 3, but for some reason like it made me sad. is that just a me problem and how do i become ok with that, coz surely it makes sense shes gonna be with people before me but it still annoys me.

What annoys you about girls having exes? Don't you have an ex? Is it envy rather than annoyance?
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Original post by Anonymous
yh thats fair, i did say to her woah i didnt know i was talking to a girl like that, and she was like ok fine dont talk to me then. like she got really offended or something

a girl like that, booo, she has an ex partner and i don't. wth
Original post by Surnia
'A girl like that'; a girl like what?
I'm not surprised she was offended.

fair enough, theres no need to come at like this im just tryna understand. but fair i guess it is rude
Original post by Surnia
What annoys you about girls having exes? Don't you have an ex? Is it envy rather than annoyance?

i guess its not about the exes, its what shes done with them like sex and stuff and i guess it just makes me sad. also she had a rough time with one and it made her get trust issues and i dont really wanna experience that with her and her akways being wary and kinda of like up on her toes with. i just want her to know i that i really like her and i dont have any bad intention.
Original post by Ciel.
a girl like that, booo, she has an ex partner and i don't. wth

lol yeah i guess i do hear it, thanks i needed some advice on this because i wasnt thinking clearly.
Original post by Anonymous
i guess its not about the exes, its what shes done with them like sex and stuff and i guess it just makes me sad. also she had a rough time with one and it made her get trust issues and i dont really wanna experience that with her and her akways being wary and kinda of like up on her toes with. i just want her to know i that i really like her and i dont have any bad intention.


brody you gotta suck it up, if you really like her then be supportive and show her you care about her, rather than act insecure about her past relationships and shame her💀reacting that way won’t make her trust you
Original post by Anonymous
brody you gotta suck it up, if you really like her then be supportive and show her you care about her, rather than act insecure about her past relationships and shame her💀reacting that way won’t make her trust you

yh ur right tbh, why am i acting so insecure about this ffs lol
Original post by Anonymous
i guess its not about the exes, its what shes done with them like sex and stuff and i guess it just makes me sad. also she had a rough time with one and it made her get trust issues and i dont really wanna experience that with her and her akways being wary and kinda of like up on her toes with. i just want her to know i that i really like her and i dont have any bad intention.

If you really like her, have you told her.
Original post by Rakas21
If you really like her, have you told her.

Yeah i have, and she said likes me too
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah i have, and she said likes me too

Then since she's given you the green light, you need to push through and ignore her past if you wish to pursue a relationship (3 is also not significant).

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