18 and giving up on girls
im 18 and still a super virgin - never kissed, held hands, been on a date or had sex. all women hate me and i dont know why, so the only thing i can do is give up on finding love.
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Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and still a super virgin - never kissed, held hands, been on a date or had sex. all women hate me and i dont know why, so the only thing i can do is give up on finding love.
I'm 18, never kissed, or done anything with a girl, not even dated one. You need to remember that this is completely normal at out age. If you are at university, try to find a society to join and meet people, they can introduce you to others or you can meet someone there. Don't expect to get into a relationship or do anything with anyone at a young age, it doesn't happen often an they rarely last long. Just go with the flow of life and land where you feel comfortable. Hope this helps
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and still a super virgin - never kissed, held hands, been on a date or had sex. all women hate me and i dont know why, so the only thing i can do is give up on finding love.
It's quite common to have little to no sexual experience when you're 18, especially nowadays as people are having less sex than they used to. Giving up is a good way of ensuring that you remain inexperienced.
Loads of 18 year olds are in the same situation. Get yourself out the house, get socialising, get involved in things, be an approachable and friendly person. Then things will likely happen.
However if keep telling yourself that all women hate you, you won’t try and you’ll never meet anyone.
However if keep telling yourself that all women hate you, you won’t try and you’ll never meet anyone.
You're still young, just put yourself out there and work on yourself.
Original post by Vyshto Andeddu
I'm 18, never kissed, or done anything with a girl, not even dated one. You need to remember that this is completely normal at out age. If you are at university, try to find a society to join and meet people, they can introduce you to others or you can meet someone there. Don't expect to get into a relationship or do anything with anyone at a young age, it doesn't happen often an they rarely last long. Just go with the flow of life and land where you feel comfortable. Hope this helps
maybe its normal on tsr but not in real life
Original post by affordable-mount
maybe its normal on tsr but not in real life
In real life it is like that. You may be seeing all of these people on social media and YouTube bragging about their sex lives, but in reality, they are full of bologne, live your life how you live it, not the way that the internet narcissists do
I'm 23 and same lmao.
I'm not too concerned yet. Past 25 years and maybe it's concerning. Past 30, now that's bad. Under 20? Normal!!!
I'm not too concerned yet. Past 25 years and maybe it's concerning. Past 30, now that's bad. Under 20? Normal!!!
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and still a super virgin - never kissed, held hands, been on a date or had sex. all women hate me and i dont know why, so the only thing i can do is give up on finding love.
I’m 17, never done any of the sort, in your situation, but I’m still so keen on falling in love in the future.Positive views and everything. It’s absolutely okay and there are lots of people like that.
You'll find the right girl eventually. Why do you say all girls hate you?
I agree with what other people have said. I was 19 when I had my first relationship and kiss and the relationship didn’t last after 3 years. You’ll find someone eventually. Try not to stress about it. You can be single and happy. There’s a lot more freedom when your single trust me. Enjoy it while you can. Wishing you luck mate
Yeah, i agree with the freedom while being single : )
Original post by Rr600
Lots of coping in this thread lol
Not copying, AGREEING. (theres a difference right? lol)
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and still a super virgin - never kissed, held hands, been on a date or had sex. all women hate me and i dont know why, so the only thing i can do is give up on finding love.
Firstly being a virgin at 18 is super normal. I got to uni and only like 3 people in my group of 20 weren’t virgins. Secondly I seriously doubt that every women in the world hates you. Have you tried just being friends with a women without trying to date them. This might be a good first step. If you do ask women out or use dating apps you can always ask why things didn’t work out (respectfully of course). I am a women and I didn’t start considering dating till 20. You are very young no point giving up yet. I think if you put too much pressure to find a girl and have sex that ends up making it so much harder. It’s really not a big deal to not have much experience now so I really would just go with the flow!
Original post by Anonymous
Firstly being a virgin at 18 is super normal. I got to uni and only like 3 people in my group of 20 weren’t virgins. Secondly I seriously doubt that every women in the world hates you. Have you tried just being friends with a women without trying to date them. This might be a good first step. If you do ask women out or use dating apps you can always ask why things didn’t work out (respectfully of course). I am a women and I didn’t start considering dating till 20. You are very young no point giving up yet. I think if you put too much pressure to find a girl and have sex that ends up making it so much harder. It’s really not a big deal to not have much experience now so I really would just go with the flow!
its not normal outside of tsr
Original post by affordable-mount
its not normal outside of tsr
You realise all these people exist outside of TSR, right?
There’s nothing exceptional in your first post other than your weird incorrect claim that all women hate you.
Original post by affordable-mount
its not normal outside of tsr
The people I was talking about are all from outside of TSR. 90% of people I have met and spoken to about this were virgins before going to university (this only applies to the people I know who started uni at 18 ) so it is normal outside of TSR
Original post by affordable-mount
im 18 and still a super virgin - never kissed, held hands, been on a date or had sex. all women hate me and i dont know why, so the only thing i can do is give up on finding love.
Not everyone needs a teenage romance
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