am i thinking too much about this situation

hi couple months ago my bf and friend held hands however they were both very high. I asked my bf again on why he did what he did and he can’t think of an answer. He told me it’s wasn’t my fault and it wasn’t cause he liked my friend the only reason he could think of is that when he was high he just didn’t know what to do and you don’t know why you doing anything while you’re high. I don’t know what to do I really want an answer for why it happened but could there be another reason for them to hold hands?

Reply 1

Zarek

A bit more context would be useful to comment. On the little bit of information it just seems like an ill advised thing when a bit off his head. If the relationship is otherwise sound I’d say don’t dwell on it

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by Zarek

what kind of context would you like me to provide?

Reply 3

Surnia

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Your boyfriend does drugs and you're concerned about him holding hands with someone? You've got your priorities all wrong! How can he care about you if he doesn't care about his health or finances?

If he won't get help and quit, ditch him.

Reply 4

Zarek

Original post by Anonymous

what kind of context would you like me to provide?

What exactly happened and any relevant behaviour before or after

Reply 5

JDINCINERATOR

Your boyfriend and friend held hands? It seems like this was purely a matter of them being high, but if it's more than that then I wouldn't worry about it. If your bf and friend were really starting a relationship and snubbing you, then you're going to find another bf and more loyal friends-so the damage inflicted is only as harsh on your mind as you make it out to be. Could be a lesson to you that people behave in all sorts of ways, and instead of becoming phased by it, you shrug and just move towards those people who value you and wouldn't make you feel so insecure.