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Noises during sex?

Hello, I'm really embarrassed to be asking this question hence the anonymity, however I've only ever had sex with two guys and both times I've queefed (or whatever the correct terminology is). I understand that it's just caused by air, but I find the noisebhifhkg

Reply 1

Original post
by Anonymous
Hello, I'm really embarrassed to be asking this question hence the anonymity, however I've only ever had sex with two guys and both times I've queefed (or whatever the correct terminology is). I understand that it's just caused by air, but I find the noisebhifhkg


Sorry not sure why it cut off. Anyway, I find the noise super embarrassing to the point where I'm frightened of meeting a new guy as I don't want to be intimate. Does anyone else experience this problem, is there any way of reducing the frequency of the noise? Can I do anything to stop it? Thank you

Reply 2

Life isn't a Hollywood movie. Sex can be messy, awkward and noisy, just like real life; people fart, burp, cough, sneeze, get hiccups, trip over, spill food, all at inopportune moments. Are you going to stop doing everything in case something unpredictable happens? It's normal and you have to go with it.

Reply 3

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by Surnia
Life isn't a Hollywood movie. Sex can be messy, awkward and noisy, just like real life; people fart, burp, cough, sneeze, get hiccups, trip over, spill food, all at inopportune moments. Are you going to stop doing everything in case something unpredictable happens? It's normal and you have to go with it.


It happens continuously though to the point where it is off putting... I wish I could just get over it but it really kills the mood. 😭

Reply 4

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by Anonymous
It happens continuously though to the point where it is off putting... I wish I could just get over it but it really kills the mood. 😭

Is it every single time in every position?

Reply 5

It just happens sometimes tbh, I don't consider it noteworthy, if anything it's normally a sign you're really going at it 😅

Reply 6

trying different positions may help 👌

Reply 7

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by ageshallnot
Is it every single time in every position?


It's more often than not lol, and yeah it happens in every position pretty much.

Reply 8

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by StriderHort
It just happens sometimes tbh, I don't consider it noteworthy, if anything it's normally a sign you're really going at it 😅


Are you a guy by any chance? I'm interested to know whether any men on here find it off-putting, or whether they don't really care all that much.

Reply 9

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by Anonymous
It's more often than not lol, and yeah it happens in every position pretty much.

Interesting. The girl I know who queefed most did so almost exclusively in what is commonly known as doggy position.

Reply 10

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by Anonymous
Are you a guy by any chance? I'm interested to know whether any men on here find it off-putting, or whether they don't really care all that much.

Yes, guy and a pretty experienced one - I really don't care about it, when you think about the actions of sex it's just a thing that's will happen occasionally. I think it's one of those things where if it bothers someone it says a lot more about them and their lack of sexual maturity.

Reply 11

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by StriderHort
Yes, guy and a pretty experienced one - I really don't care about it, when you think about the actions of sex it's just a thing that's will happen occasionally. I think it's one of those things where if it bothers someone it says a lot more about them and their lack of sexual maturity.


Thanks for the reassurance. Would you bother addressing it if it does happen with a new partner the first time it happens or is it best to say nothing? I've been since for three years now and I would like to start dating again and this issue really worries me lol (I might sound pedantic but it does).

Reply 12

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by Anonymous
Thanks for the reassurance. Would you bother addressing it if it does happen with a new partner the first time it happens or is it best to say nothing? I've been since for three years now and I would like to start dating again and this issue really worries me lol (I might sound pedantic but it does).


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Reply 13

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by Sun in Splendour
Queefing is absolutely fine. It’s just air, it’s not like you’re farting or anything, it’s just trapped air in the pussy. Most guys couldn’t care less about it, honestly.


Thank you for the reassuring, are you commenting as a guy?

Reply 14

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by Anonymous
Thanks for the reassurance. Would you bother addressing it if it does happen with a new partner the first time it happens or is it best to say nothing? I've been since for three years now and I would like to start dating again and this issue really worries me lol (I might sound pedantic but it does).

Not sure what you mean, would I as a guy address/judge/comment on it with my new partner? no, neither would I really expect them to. If you're asking should YOU address it, I think the answer is still no, unless you were comfortable enough to just laugh about it but no need to apologise or explain.

Reply 15

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by StriderHort
Not sure what you mean, would I as a guy address/judge/comment on it with my new partner? no, neither would I really expect them to. If you're asking should YOU address it, I think the answer is still no, unless you were comfortable enough to just laugh about it but no need to apologise or explain.


I was asking the latter but that's great, thanks very much! Maybe I should just learn to try and overcome it lol

Reply 16

It a non-issue as the whole business is a squeegee, uncontrollable, partially comical experience, that’s part of the fun. No guy is going to worry about it
(edited 1 year ago)

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