Why have you decided that at 14yo when you have no idea what love is in the context of a relationship?
I agree, love is complicated and comes in different forms. It’s hard to fully commit to a decision so early on in life, love comes out in the most unexpected places.
Two different things in this thread. Not being interested in relationships at 14 is sensible. Saying you've decided you don't ever want to find love is like saying you hate eating spaghetti bolognese when you've never tried it. Anyway, sometimes you have no control of your emotions
Stop stressing about it. You personally don't what love is in a relationship; you may have seen it in your family or friends' families, but it's different for everyone.