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When I say never. . .

So, I'm 14 (about to be 15) and have decided that I don't want to even try to find love. Is it weird that I'm kind of......... terrified to?
Why have you decided that at 14yo when you have no idea what love is in the context of a relationship?
Original post by Surnia
Why have you decided that at 14yo when you have no idea what love is in the context of a relationship?

I agree, love is complicated and comes in different forms. It’s hard to fully commit to a decision so early on in life, love comes out in the most unexpected places.
Reply 3
Love is not something i am interested in i guess
Reply 4
Even though I've never dated anyone in my life. (shrugging)
Original post by Anonymous
Love is not something i am interested in i guess

Two different things in this thread. Not being interested in relationships at 14 is sensible. Saying you've decided you don't ever want to find love is like saying you hate eating spaghetti bolognese when you've never tried it. Anyway, sometimes you have no control of your emotions
Reply 6
What IS spaghetti bolognese? and im just.....terrified to find love 😭
Original post by Anonymous
What IS spaghetti bolognese? and im just.....terrified to find love 😭

https://www.bbc.co.uk/food/recipes/easy_spaghetti_bolognese_93639

Stop stressing about it. You personally don't what love is in a relationship; you may have seen it in your family or friends' families, but it's different for everyone.
Reply 8
Yeah, I've seen the worst and I'm scared it'll happen to me. : \
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah, I've seen the worst and I'm scared it'll happen to me. : \

A wise man once said-

Don't be so afraid of dying... that you never live (seriously, think about it)
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah, I've seen the worst and I'm scared it'll happen to me. : \

But a bad relationship isn't based on love!
Reply 11
Yeah, I suppose so

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