Boys, I need your opinions

OP

Because I kinda don't like being the one single person : ( and i probably should stop being so closed about my emotions maybe

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Original post by Anonymous

What do most prefer in a girl? Looks, personality, etc....
I know guys' opinions differ, but I need an idea. I'm just tired of being made fun of for being single and need to start improving myself so i stop getting bullied : P

don't change ever yourself for a boy.
improve yourself for you, not for some stupid guy.
value and accept yourself for who you are, and never place your self-worth on some guy's opinion of you. 🫶 cos ur better than that. dress nicely for yourself, in the way you like. study hard to be proud of yourself. do the things you like to do, talk to people who are good to you and worth your time of day.
bullies absolutely suck, but at the end of the day, their opinion is hot trash and hardly matters in the long-run. if it's serious, report them. especially if they attempt to harm you in any way.
wishing you all the best 🫶🫶

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Original post by Anonymous

Because I kinda don't like being the one single person : ( and i probably should stop being so closed about my emotions maybe

don't bother, being the only single person is the best. you have options!
don't bother going out with someone just because you're uncomfortable being single because of somebody else's opinion- if you want to date for the affection, fun times, have a big crush on somebody who likes you back!- etc- that's a valid reason.
only do these things if you truly want it.

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OP

Thats some pretty good advice, thank you! I guess I'll stay single : |) YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!! (I genuinly love being single)

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Original post by Anonymous

Thats some pretty good advice, thank you! I guess I'll stay single : |) YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!! (I genuinly love being single)

good for you! do what you love and be the best person you can be- it's your life! i'm really wishing you all the best 🫶🫶

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aadeem

Original post by Anonymous

What do most prefer in a girl? Looks, personality, etc....
I know guys' opinions differ, but I need an idea. I'm just tired of being made fun of for being single and need to start improving myself so i stop getting bullied : P

Be yourself and authentic. If you’re sarcastic, loud, quiet, shy, goofy, or serious, just do yourself to the fullest. We can sense when your not true to yourself and its very awkward.

What i personally look for in a woman is humble, sweet, warm, and sexy only for her partner, not for everyone else in public or on social media etc.

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OP

Original post by aadeem

Be yourself and authentic. If you’re sarcastic, loud, quiet, shy, goofy, or serious, just do yourself to the fullest. We can sense when your not true to yourself and its very awkward.
What i personally look for in a woman is humble, sweet, warm, and sexy only for her partner, not for everyone else in public or on social media etc.

Really? Guys like girls to be themselves? Okay! Thats very helpful, thank you!

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aadeem

Original post by Anonymous

Really? Guys like girls to be themselves? Okay! Thats very helpful, thank you!

Clearly ignored the second part. I should add that most men prefer females that pay attention and aren't snarky.. 🙂

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Original post by aadeem

Clearly ignored the second part. I should add that most men prefer females that pay attention and aren't snarky.. 🙂

wow, men must hate me 🙃

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NastySeagull

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Original post by Anonymous

What do most prefer in a girl? Looks, personality, etc....
I know guys' opinions differ, but I need an idea. I'm just tired of being made fun of for being single and need to start improving myself so i stop getting bullied : P

first off, in this I am gonna give you some advice but I need to say this. If the only reason you're looking for a boy because people are making fun of you, then you should try to stop talking to them. you shouldn't improve and stuff, but anyway. What I mainly look for is looks and personality, as an example someone I had a crush on had the look but not the personality, but it was never the other way around. most people don't want a hobgoblin to be named their SO (significant other) so i'd say focus on personality first and then looks.

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JDINCINERATOR

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Original post by Anonymous

What do most prefer in a girl? Looks, personality, etc....
I know guys' opinions differ, but I need an idea. I'm just tired of being made fun of for being single and need to start improving myself so i stop getting bullied : P

I only care about their personalities. If they're joyful, happy, loyal, a good laugh, immensely caring and committed to maintaining relationships, then she's definitely my sort. Not interested in negative time-wasting control freaks who try to tame and get men to do whatever they want- if they want men like that get a butler or a janitor.

(edited 1 month ago)

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OP

I guess I have a considered "good" personality. I'm not, like, drop-dead gorgeous, but I guess I'm pretty in my own way.
If I was in a relationship, I would not treat a guy like a servant or anything (and I'd expect the same) I want someone who's there for me and I can be there for them as well.

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username7272953

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Original post by Anonymous

What do most prefer in a girl? Looks, personality, etc....
I know guys' opinions differ, but I need an idea. I'm just tired of being made fun of for being single and need to start improving myself so i stop getting bullied : P

don't stress this is madness... you will get relationships in no time then you will wish you were single 🤣🤣

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OP

Original post by YoungG-OG

don't stress this is madness... you will get relationships in no time then you will wish you were single 🤣🤣

Yeah, I feel like that'll happen : (

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username7272953

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Original post by Anonymous

Yeah, I feel like that'll happen : (

these things aren't worth stressing about honestly ... just enjoy what you can of your time

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