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No pleasure at all while fingering myself

I'm young and a virgin, so I'm very new to this sort of thing. I don't have a hymen i think, so that can't be it. I've read a lot about needing to have a lot of lubricant and to be fully relaxed, which i've tried- and yet still nothing happens. I feel absolutely zero pleasure when I finger myself. It just ends up feeling uncomfortable and i always bleed a little afterwards :frown: pls help, i can't see a doctor or ask my mom because it would be humiliating since i'm young
Penetration doesn't provide pleasure itself, the clitoris does. I don't know if that helps
Buy a vibrator
have you managed to sort your problem out

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