The Student Room Group

In need of quick advise like urgent

So I’m studying at Xaverian. I’ve been here for about nearly a week. I’ve made two friends but I’m doing two BTECs and one a level. I got accepted to Connell co op and I’m wondering if I should transfer

However I’m scared of being alone. Is it easy to make friends in connell co op? And is it better or worse than Xaverian? I’m really struggling to make a decision.

Please give me advice!!!
Is the quality of education better at the other place or is it equal?
As wierd as it sounds, if you visited it how does it feel does it feel like a place you would definitely like to go to and study at?
You have only been at the college/6 form you are at for a week no complete friendship bonds have been formed at either place so you could make friends at the other college/6th form..

However,
If you do feel like you're better situated where you are now and are content with it, why should you transfer? If you feel like this is the place I will be the happiest learning over other places if visited.

Journey time to the establishment? I doubt anyone wants to be on a train or what have you for 2 hours (idk if it is that) over 1 hr when it's 7am.

At the end of the day it is how you personally feel no one else should be making that decision for you as it is your education. And your friends at the current place shouldn't be making you feel as if you can't make friends at the other place because you can if you talk to someone you're sitting next to or if you after notes missed from first week kinda thing :smile: .
Reply 2
Original post by littleliv101
Is the quality of education better at the other place or is it equal?
As wierd as it sounds, if you visited it how does it feel does it feel like a place you would definitely like to go to and study at?
You have only been at the college/6 form you are at for a week no complete friendship bonds have been formed at either place so you could make friends at the other college/6th form..
However,
If you do feel like you're better situated where you are now and are content with it, why should you transfer? If you feel like this is the place I will be the happiest learning over other places if visited.
Journey time to the establishment? I doubt anyone wants to be on a train or what have you for 2 hours (idk if it is that) over 1 hr when it's 7am.
At the end of the day it is how you personally feel no one else should be making that decision for you as it is your education. And your friends at the current place shouldn't be making you feel as if you can't make friends at the other place because you can if you talk to someone you're sitting next to or if you after notes missed from first week kinda thing :smile: .

thanks I’ve decided to stay as the Connell environment is the greatest

but making friends is hard in sixth form anyways
Reply 3
Original post by inept-lingo
thanks I’ve decided to stay as the Connell environment is the greatest
but making friends is hard in sixth form anyways

I’ve been away from the uk for three years and it seems like everyone is different here idk so it’s hard to make friends easily
Original post by inept-lingo
So I’m studying at Xaverian. I’ve been here for about nearly a week. I’ve made two friends but I’m doing two BTECs and one a level. I got accepted to Connell co op and I’m wondering if I should transfer
However I’m scared of being alone. Is it easy to make friends in connell co op? And is it better or worse than Xaverian? I’m really struggling to make a decision.
Please give me advice!!!


Hey ik im probably not helping you rn but i really hope it goes well for u but yk what grades did u need to get into xaverian to do Btec ( y11 btw)

Quick Reply