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do you think this was all my fault or not?

so i a muslim meaning that no crushing on boys whatsoever
but i ended up being embarrased because a boys mate asked me did you get married to him? did you have kids? what are their names?
i hated that they were making fun of me than i repeadtly asked them to stop but they continued
but two girls said to me ''shut up you dirty little p.i.g''
im senstitive thats why i cried and couldn't hold it
i had to leave the room
but when i left...
the boys called me weak
idk if it is because im a girl
or something

Reply 1

Bean_cat

You're not at fault

They're being weird and disgusting - was this in school? Those girls are being hypocrites with that sort of attitude tbh. You should tell the teacher/somebody about this because that behaviour is pathetic from everyone around you. Regardless of whether you're muslim or not - crushes are absolutely normal, this situation has no relevance to that and anybody would feel uncomfortable with the treatment you received, you did right to leave.

I'm sorry to hear that you went through this and I hope you feel better soon

Reply 2

luvsunsets

Original post by Bean_cat

You're not at fault
They're being weird and disgusting - was this in school? Those girls are being hypocrites with that sort of attitude tbh. You should tell the teacher/somebody about this because that behaviour is pathetic from everyone around you. Regardless of whether you're muslim or not - crushes are absolutely normal, this situation has no relevance to that and anybody would feel uncomfortable with the treatment you received, you did right to leave.
I'm sorry to hear that you went through this and I hope you feel better soon

yh but i dont get why the boys called me weak

Reply 3

Bean_cat

Original post by luvsunsets

yh but i dont get why the boys called me weak

Most likely because you were visibly upset and they thought their disgusting comments were 'jokes' - they're being daft and are offended at your response to their behaviour, so they started saying random crap to make themselves feel better. You haven't done anything wrong, please don't take their comments to heart