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What can you do? I am a siblings and I have seen this happen. I am also a adult and I have told the parents and taken her phone. What other steps is there?

Reply 1

Unknown13467

Original post by Anonymous

What can you do? I am a siblings and I have seen this happen. I am also a adult and I have told the parents and taken her phone. What other steps is there?

It sounds like you're dealing with a serious situation involving a sibling, likely regarding phone use and potentially harmful behavior. Here are additional steps you can take, considering you're in the UK and have already taken responsible action by informing the parents and taking away the phone:

1. Understand the Issue
- **Communication:** Have a calm and open conversation with your sibling. Try to understand what might be troubling them. Whether it's social media pressure, bullying, or risky online behavior, gaining insight into the root cause can help guide the next steps.

2. Set Clear Boundaries & Guidelines
- **Parental Control Tools:** Help the parents set up appropriate parental controls on the phone and any devices your sibling uses. Many phones and apps allow for content restrictions, time limits, and monitoring.
- **Screen Time Management:** Suggest creating a daily routine that limits the amount of time your sibling spends on their phone, encouraging other activities like hobbies, exercise, or family time.
3. Educational Support
- **Internet Safety Education:** Ensure your sibling understands the dangers of the internet, including cyberbullying, online predators, and inappropriate content. Websites like [thinkuknow](https://www.thinkuknow.co.uk/) provide resources tailored for young people and their families in the UK.
- **Mental Health Support:** If your sibling’s behavior is linked to emotional or psychological issues, encourage the parents to consider professional support, such as counseling or therapy. Charities like **Childline** or **YoungMinds** offer support for children and young adults facing mental health challenges.
4. Involve the School
- **Speak with Teachers or Counselors:** If the issue is related to school life, it may help to notify a trusted teacher or school counselor. Many schools have systems in place to help manage issues like cyberbullying, peer pressure, or academic stress.
5. Legal Steps (If Necessary)
- If your sibling is involved in something illegal (e.g., online grooming, sharing of inappropriate images), it might be necessary to escalate the issue to authorities. In the UK, you can report online exploitation or abuse through **CEOP (Child Exploitation and Online Protection)** or the **NSPCC**.
6. Provide Positive Alternatives
- Encourage other interests and activities that don’t involve screens, such as sports, reading, or family outings. This will help them focus on healthier habits and develop skills outside of technology.
Each situation is unique, so these steps can be adapted based on the severity of the issue. If you're concerned about your sibling's well-being, it's important to stay involved and support the parents in finding the best course of action.

(edited 2 weeks ago)

Reply 2

weetabix_muncher

Original post by Anonymous

What can you do? I am a siblings and I have seen this happen. I am also a adult and I have told the parents and taken her phone. What other steps is there?

How old are they? If they are young, I would consider setting strict parental controls on the phone or controlling who she can talk to online or what social medias she can use. If they are a bit older, like mid teens, then I am not sure what I would do