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Femboy in need

Im a femboy and I want to talk to men but I dont know how to or how they will respond

Reply 1

Exactly the same as any other human being without a label - why are you so hung up?

Reply 2

What do you even mean by hung up

Reply 3

Well I'm sort-of a femboy too because I like to embrace the feminine side of being a man. You shouldn't be afraid of talking to men, just be yourself and if you click you click and if you don't just move on to someone else. You need confidence I think, just talk to people you think are worth knowing and who align with your interests.

Reply 4

just use grindr, a lot of guys are into femboys

Reply 5

How fem are you? You probably just need a confidence boost. Who have you tried to talk to so far?

Reply 6

Original post by Anonymous
Im a femboy and I want to talk to men but I dont know how to or how they will respond

Do you want to talk to gay men or men generally? What do you want to do with them?

Reply 7

Original post by Emily's Teapot
How fem are you? You probably just need a confidence boost. Who have you tried to talk to so far?

Well guys online but as soon as i bring up that im feminine they ghost me its reallly disheartening

Reply 8

Original post by Anonymous
Well guys online but as soon as i bring up that im feminine they ghost me its reallly disheartening

Aww you poor thing. How fem are you?

Reply 9

Original post by Anonymous
Im a femboy and I want to talk to men but I dont know how to or how they will respond

astaghfirullah.

Reply 10

Original post by Emily's Teapot
Aww you poor thing. How fem are you?

Pretty Fem but i have to hide from my family so it stupid

Reply 11

Original post by Anonymous
What do you even mean by hung up

I suspect anon #2 means you're kind of overthinking it - you feel that you don't know how to. But actually you do - it's just the same as talking with everyone else.

I get what you mean though, it must feel more high-stakes than other conversations. The more you do it the more comfortable you'll be. Good luck out there!

Reply 12

Original post by Anonymous
Im a femboy and I want to talk to men but I dont know how to or how they will respond

Hi I'll talk to you

Reply 13

Original post by Anonymous
Hi I'll talk to you

hi hi then

Reply 14

Original post by curtained-declar
hi hi then

You're not anoned 🧐

(I'm not Anon 3 btw)

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