Im from an immigrant household and the struggle with ppr work and anything online such as government work, opening a bank acc, student loan etc always terrifies me. It always feels like something has to go wrong with every step I make. Nothing ever goes smoothly. An example, all of my friend’s student loan applications got accepted within max 2 weeks but mine still hasn’t even been approved yet. Another example, it took my friend 5 mins to open a student acc w a bank but for me it took 12+ applications being completed ( all got rejected ), 1 getting accepted but w wrong names ( have to redo it ) and open a current acc w that bank then having to transfer it to a student’s account ( still doesn’t work I have to go to them in branch ).
Sometimes It feels like its something wrong w me eg I over worry too much that nothing goes right or cuz I overthink it ?
Any ideas or opinions on this ?