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Bf took a video of me performing a sexual act

Me and my bf are s3xually active and recently we met up and I was performing oral s3x and I could see him recording at the corner of my eye. I didn’t think anything of it. He didn’t ask me. Later on I asked him to send me the video so I could see and he aired me. I kept asking him then he finally said no. I asked why and he said because he’s a man and I shouldn’t “like” watching stuff like that. I had an argument with him on how my face is in the video and it could literally ruin my life and I’ve been crying ever since. I’m scared to break up with him because I’m scared he’ll use the video against me or he won’t delete it. I trusted him and never thought he do something like this to me, he’s never been like this and has always been loving to me, he’s just been so mean lately, I don’t know what to do.
try to get hold of his phone and delete it yourself
This guy needs to be punished for his mistreatment.

He can’t hold that video without your consent.

Threaten legal action!
Hello, this sounds like a difficult situation that you are in, it's good that you have spoken out about it. I would ask again for it to be deleted, it's not ok for you to be filmed without your consent. This link provides some advice that may be helpful to you: New intimate image abuse laws announced

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