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I was called a sl*t for cheating

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Original post by Sun in Splendour
Too much slooting around OP, completely justified for you to be called that.


This is going a bit too far.
Original post by Anonymous
I cheated on my girlfriend (we're lesbians), I hooked up with other people. Admittedly, I didn't do the noble thing and confess, she just found out. Anyways, we were arguing while at her place and she started name-calling me out of anger things like '''slu*t'', ''who*re''. I don't mind maybe things like ''you have no shame'', but the other words were just derogatory, that I didn't expect it from her because we're both women which makes the situation worse. Yes, I know I cheated and technically did act like one ''wh*re'', I'm not denying the severity of my actions. But it doesn't mean that she can just say that; she can shout at me, she can insult me in other ways, but these words are where I draw the line. I spoke to my friend and she said that I deserve to be called these things. I disagreed and we got into an argument. Thoughts?

This story is crazy. It hurts when your feelings get hurt don't they
You should be doing some self reflecting about your character and asking questions such as why you feel the need to cheat.

As for the original post...if shoe fits what's the problem?
Original post by Anonymous
I cheated on my girlfriend (we're lesbians), I hooked up with other people. Admittedly, I didn't do the noble thing and confess, she just found out. Anyways, we were arguing while at her place and she started name-calling me out of anger things like '''slu*t'', ''who*re''. I don't mind maybe things like ''you have no shame'', but the other words were just derogatory, that I didn't expect it from her because we're both women which makes the situation worse. Yes, I know I cheated and technically did act like one ''wh*re'', I'm not denying the severity of my actions. But it doesn't mean that she can just say that; she can shout at me, she can insult me in other ways, but these words are where I draw the line. I spoke to my friend and she said that I deserve to be called these things. I disagreed and we got into an argument. Thoughts?


You need to sit tf down. Are you not understanding how she felt? Especially cos u didn't tell her anything, what the hell do you even expect? For her to call you darling and sweetheart?
And if you draw the line at being called a w*ore or s*but maybe you shouldn't have been one or had the decency to end the relationship before hand

Your friend is right. You deserve that
what did you expect you cheated so as the saying goes, if the shoe fits wear it. plus if you didn't wanna be called a sl*t then don't act like one its simple really
Original post by Anonymous
I cheated on my girlfriend (we're lesbians), I hooked up with other people. Admittedly, I didn't do the noble thing and confess, she just found out. Anyways, we were arguing while at her place and she started name-calling me out of anger things like '''slu*t'', ''who*re''. I don't mind maybe things like ''you have no shame'', but the other words were just derogatory, that I didn't expect it from her because we're both women which makes the situation worse. Yes, I know I cheated and technically did act like one ''wh*re'', I'm not denying the severity of my actions. But it doesn't mean that she can just say that; she can shout at me, she can insult me in other ways, but these words are where I draw the line. I spoke to my friend and she said that I deserve to be called these things. I disagreed and we got into an argument. Thoughts?

imagine cheating on someone who cares about you, betraying them, breaking their trust and self esteem but get offended because they name called you....? get help mate
Original post by Anonymous
I cheated on my girlfriend (we're lesbians), I hooked up with other people. Admittedly, I didn't do the noble thing and confess, she just found out. Anyways, we were arguing while at her place and she started name-calling me out of anger things like '''slu*t'', ''who*re''. I don't mind maybe things like ''you have no shame'', but the other words were just derogatory, that I didn't expect it from her because we're both women which makes the situation worse. Yes, I know I cheated and technically did act like one ''wh*re'', I'm not denying the severity of my actions. But it doesn't mean that she can just say that; she can shout at me, she can insult me in other ways, but these words are where I draw the line. I spoke to my friend and she said that I deserve to be called these things. I disagreed and we got into an argument. Thoughts?

Grow up. Embarassing, honestly.
Original post by Anonymous
Grow up. Embarassing, honestly.

yeah then go crying Abt them calling them a name that was very well fit is just childish
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That might happen uno 🥵
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Original post by Anonymous
I cheated on my girlfriend (we're lesbians), I hooked up with other people. Admittedly, I didn't do the noble thing and confess, she just found out. Anyways, we were arguing while at her place and she started name-calling me out of anger things like '''slu*t'', ''who*re''. I don't mind maybe things like ''you have no shame'', but the other words were just derogatory, that I didn't expect it from her because we're both women which makes the situation worse. Yes, I know I cheated and technically did act like one ''wh*re'', I'm not denying the severity of my actions. But it doesn't mean that she can just say that; she can shout at me, she can insult me in other ways, but these words are where I draw the line. I spoke to my friend and she said that I deserve to be called these things. I disagreed and we got into an argument. Thoughts?

You are not the victim here in this situation lil bro

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