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Overhelmed - need help

Hi everyone,

I’m reaching out because I’m feeling overwhelmed and could use some advice or support. I’ve been dealing with constant anxiety and stress, and I never seem to feel truly safe, happy, or okay. My mind is always racing with worries and negative thoughts, especially when I perceive negative comments or situations.

My past experiences have been really challenging. I was subjected to severe bullying during my childhood, which has left deep emotional scars. The pain from those experiences still affects me today and contributes to my current struggles. Additionally, I had high hopes of becoming a doctor but changed my path to engineering after realising it wasn’t my passion. Now, I feel like I’m not respected for these decisions, and I’m struggling to talk about my feelings openly. I’m also worried about how others will perceive me if I share too much, and I can’t afford therapy right now.

I find small moments of relief, like playing football, but they’re temporary and don’t fully address how I’m feeling. I don’t feel like I can confide in friends or family, as they either don’t understand or aren’t open to discussing emotions.

I’m looking for advice on how to manage these feelings.

Thank you for any help or guidance you can provide.
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by Anonymous
Hi everyone,
I’m reaching out because I’m feeling overwhelmed and could use some advice or support. I’ve been dealing with constant anxiety and stress, and I never seem to feel truly safe, happy, or okay. My mind is always racing with worries and negative thoughts, especially when I perceive negative comments or situations.
My past experiences have been really challenging. I was subjected to severe bullying during my childhood, which has left deep emotional scars. The pain from those experiences still affects me today and contributes to my current struggles. Additionally, I had high hopes of becoming a doctor but changed my path to engineering after realising it wasn’t my passion. Now, I feel like I’m not respected for these decisions, and I’m struggling to talk about my feelings openly. I’m also worried about how others will perceive me if I share too much, and I can’t afford therapy right now.
I find small moments of relief, like playing football, but they’re temporary and don’t fully address how I’m feeling. I don’t feel like I can confide in friends or family, as they either don’t understand or aren’t open to discussing emotions.
I’m looking for advice on how to manage these feelings.
Thank you for any help or guidance you can provide.
Could you go to your GP and speak to them about your mental health?
Original post
by Anonymous
Hi everyone,
I’m reaching out because I’m feeling overwhelmed and could use some advice or support. I’ve been dealing with constant anxiety and stress, and I never seem to feel truly safe, happy, or okay. My mind is always racing with worries and negative thoughts, especially when I perceive negative comments or situations.
My past experiences have been really challenging. I was subjected to severe bullying during my childhood, which has left deep emotional scars. The pain from those experiences still affects me today and contributes to my current struggles. Additionally, I had high hopes of becoming a doctor but changed my path to engineering after realising it wasn’t my passion. Now, I feel like I’m not respected for these decisions, and I’m struggling to talk about my feelings openly. I’m also worried about how others will perceive me if I share too much, and I can’t afford therapy right now.
I find small moments of relief, like playing football, but they’re temporary and don’t fully address how I’m feeling. I don’t feel like I can confide in friends or family, as they either don’t understand or aren’t open to discussing emotions.
I’m looking for advice on how to manage these feelings.
Thank you for any help or guidance you can provide.

Hi There

We hear that things feel overwhelming for you right now because you are living with anxiety and stress. It sounds like you are looking for some support to help you to manage these feeling. We are wondering if you have been able to reach out to your GP who will be able to help you to access some really good support 🫶

If not we encourage you to reach out to your GP and to take a look at the Anxiety UK website. Anxiety UK have resources on their website which can support you to live with anxiety and you can book a call with one of their advisers who can provide you with practical advice and support over the phone ☎️

You have done really well to use this space to be honest about how you are feeling. If you are feeling like suicide is an option right now then you can call Hopeline247 on 0800 068 4141 or Text us on 88247 to speak with a trained Suicide Prevention Adviser who will be more than happy to help 💟

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Original post
by Anonymous
Hi everyone,
I’m reaching out because I’m feeling overwhelmed and could use some advice or support. I’ve been dealing with constant anxiety and stress, and I never seem to feel truly safe, happy, or okay. My mind is always racing with worries and negative thoughts, especially when I perceive negative comments or situations.
My past experiences have been really challenging. I was subjected to severe bullying during my childhood, which has left deep emotional scars. The pain from those experiences still affects me today and contributes to my current struggles. Additionally, I had high hopes of becoming a doctor but changed my path to engineering after realising it wasn’t my passion. Now, I feel like I’m not respected for these decisions, and I’m struggling to talk about my feelings openly. I’m also worried about how others will perceive me if I share too much, and I can’t afford therapy right now.
I find small moments of relief, like playing football, but they’re temporary and don’t fully address how I’m feeling. I don’t feel like I can confide in friends or family, as they either don’t understand or aren’t open to discussing emotions.
I’m looking for advice on how to manage these feelings.
Thank you for any help or guidance you can provide.

You have some sound advice on here already.

There is a lot of support out there such as:

-The Samaritans, you can call 116 123, which is available 24 hours a day

-Mind, 0300 123 3393

-Saneline, 0300 304 7000, from 4.30pm-10.30pm

-The mix, 0800 808 4994, 11am-11pm

-SHOUT, text 852258, 24 hour text service

-Crises, 741741, text service

-Papyrus, 0800 068 4141, if you have thoughts of suicide or in emotional distress

-Rethink mental health, 0300 5000 927

-No Panic, 0800 138 8889

-Relate, they have a chat advisor

-NHS mental health, 111

-Mental Health 24/7: 0800 008 6516

-hubofhope website, useful contact information for your local area

You can self refer yourself to talking therapies on the NHS website.There is the mind forum

Also Facebook groups

You can join support groups

You can contact a crises team if things get very bad Plenty of resources online, infor mation regarding well being.
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