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Help w boyfriend

So, at my school we have a lot of clubs. And one of them is crochet club. I'm in my 8th grade year and I have no classes at all with my boyfriend. So, I made him join crochet with me about a month ago. It meets every Friday at 8:35am. Now, my boyfriend has a group of friends. I think he might have maybe 1 class with them and that's it. But recently they made him join the GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) and it was also on a Friday. AT THE SAME TIME AS CROCHET. Whenever we swicth classes and we all see each other in the halls, Ethan, (my boyfriend) goes to his friends first all the time. So, I really don't want him to join that club, becasue then we won't have any time together. What do you guys think? HELP!

Reply 1

He can join whatever classes he wants. Why don't you see each other outside of school? Then again, 13yo is too young to be bothering about boys and relationships; concentrate more on your studies.

Reply 2

Original post by Surnia
He can join whatever classes he wants. Why don't you see each other outside of school? Then again, 13yo is too young to be bothering about boys and relationships; concentrate more on your studies.

Crochet and GSA are not classes. They are clubs. That happen at the exact same time on Friday mornings. He can't pick between me and his friends apparently. But, I'm not pressuring hi, but I feel like he should stay in crochet with me. I think this because he hangs out with his friends outside of school ALOT and he has at least 2 classes with them. The only times I can talk to him is when we pass each other in the hallways and that's for maybe about 20 seconds. And I can't go hang out with him outside of school because I have strict parents. It kind of feels like his friends are trying to keep him away from me because they already knew that he was in crochet and that they started at the same time. Yeah, I know we're both young, but we both get A's and B's and we are in Band and Orchestra performing really well and we are mature enough for a relasionship.

Reply 3

Original post by r_ae113
Crochet and GSA are not classes. They are clubs. That happen at the exact same time on Friday mornings. He can't pick between me and his friends apparently. But, I'm not pressuring hi, but I feel like he should stay in crochet with me. I think this because he hangs out with his friends outside of school ALOT and he has at least 2 classes with them. The only times I can talk to him is when we pass each other in the hallways and that's for maybe about 20 seconds. And I can't go hang out with him outside of school because I have strict parents. It kind of feels like his friends are trying to keep him away from me because they already knew that he was in crochet and that they started at the same time. Yeah, I know we're both young, but we both get A's and B's and we are in Band and Orchestra performing really well and we are mature enough for a relasionship.

Classes, clubs; point is, that he can and should choose what he wants to do. Forcing someone into joining a club isn't mature.

Reply 4

Original post by r_ae113
So, at my school we have a lot of clubs. And one of them is crochet club. I'm in my 8th grade year and I have no classes at all with my boyfriend. So, I made him join crochet with me about a month ago. It meets every Friday at 8:35am. Now, my boyfriend has a group of friends. I think he might have maybe 1 class with them and that's it. But recently they made him join the GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) and it was also on a Friday. AT THE SAME TIME AS CROCHET. Whenever we swicth classes and we all see each other in the halls, Ethan, (my boyfriend) goes to his friends first all the time. So, I really don't want him to join that club, becasue then we won't have any time together. What do you guys think? HELP!

You can't force someone into joining a club - if you were mature enough for a relationship, you would probably understand that and let him spend time with his friends when he wants to. You're only young as well so I wouldn't worry about having a boyfriend if I were you - it sounds like you're not in an actual relationship anyway.

Edit: sorry, that sounds a lot harsher than I meant for it to 💕
(edited 8 months ago)

Reply 5

Original post by mcollins08
You can't force someone into joining a club - if you were mature enough for a relationship, you would probably understand that and let him spend time with his friends when he wants to. You're only young as well so I wouldn't worry about having a boyfriend if I were you - it sounds like you're not in an actual relationship anyway.
Edit: sorry, that sounds a lot harsher than I meant for it to 💕

It's alright! I didn't read it harsh at all. Anyways long story short, he decided to stay with me in crochet because he told me he's been treating me bad latley. Although I don't remember him doing so. Anyways our 9 months is next month so..yep! Thanks for the feedback mll!

Reply 6

Original post by r_ae113
It's alright! I didn't read it harsh at all. Anyways long story short, he decided to stay with me in crochet because he told me he's been treating me bad latley. Although I don't remember him doing so. Anyways our 9 months is next month so..yep! Thanks for the feedback mll!

That's great!! Happy 9 months btw! Also, just curious how old you are? x

Reply 7

Original post by mcollins08
That's great!! Happy 9 months btw! Also, just curious how old you are? x

Haha thanks! I'm fourteen actually. And he is too! :smile:

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