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feeling hopeless

I don't have enough money to move out, or to pay for rent , or sleep on a friends couch.

I'm not trying to be sexist.

I live in a male dominate household. I just have anxiety because my sibling and my parent don't get.. my sibling has a lot of issues. I try to confront my parent as he's the more mature person but I feel like I'm not being listened to.

I'm fed up of the constant confrontations, the arguing.

I just want to live in peaceful and loving household.
Everything is just so cold and dire.

I feel hopeless and wonder why do I have to put up with this, my heart hurts so much.

I'm trying to prefect my art skills to distract myself

But it's really hard

What can I do?

Reply 1

Analyst89

Original post by Anonymous

I don't have enough money to move out, or to pay for rent , or sleep on a friends couch.
I'm not trying to be sexist.
I live in a male dominate household. I just have anxiety because my sibling and my parent don't get.. my sibling has a lot of issues. I try to confront my parent as he's the more mature person but I feel like I'm not being listened to.
I'm fed up of the constant confrontations, the arguing.
I just want to live in peaceful and loving household.
Everything is just so cold and dire.
I feel hopeless and wonder why do I have to put up with this, my heart hurts so much.
I'm trying to prefect my art skills to distract myself
But it's really hard
What can I do?

I'll come back late this evening and offer more advice.

There is a lot of support out there such as:

-The Samaritans, you can call 116 123, which is available 24 hours a day

-Mind, 0300 123 3393

-Saneline, 0300 304 7000, from 4.30pm-10.30pm

-The mix, 0800 808 4994, 11am-11pm

-SHOUT, text 852258, 24 hour text service

-Crises, 741741, text service

-Papyrus, 0800 068 4141, if you have thoughts of suicide or in emotional distress

-Rethink mental health, 0300 5000 927

-No Panic, 0800 138 8889

-Relate, they have a chat advisor

-NHS mental health, 111

-Mental Health 24/7: 0800 008 6516

-hubofhope website, useful contact information for your local area

You can self refer yourself to talking therapies on the NHS website.There is the mind forum

Also Facebook groups

You can join support groups

You can contact a crises team if things get very bad Plenty of resources online, infor mation regarding well being.

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Papyrus Hopeline

Official Rep

It sounds as though you're having a really tough time at home, not being heard or understood, and not feeling comfortable or safe. That can be exhausting when you have no space as your haven, where you can get away from the world and be yourself. It sounds like you're feeling trapped there, with no feasible way to get out of this situation in the near future, and that in turn can lead to hopelessness. If you are feeling alone with these thoughts and ever think about ending your life, please do reach out to Hopeline, where we can discuss this further and try to offer some support with keeping yourself safe. HOPELINE247 | Papyrus (papyrus-uk.org)