What to do about this guy??

Hey all so Iv been talking to a guy from tinder for 2 weeks now and we met on sun at a cafe but I dunno whether he likes me or not. Sometimes he texts me back quickly but other times he doesn't reply and he said it cos he doesn't always see them but he's always on his phone so I dunno whether I believe that and have a feeling that he's talking to other girls. Should I just wait for him to text me now and not bother him anymore?? Also I dunno what he wants from me cos he put on his tinder that he's still figuring it out but then he said to me that he tryna find someone genuine and he hasn't mentuoned sex or anything to me. So what should i do??

Reply 1

wonua

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Original post by Anonymous

Hey all so Iv been talking to a guy from tinder for 2 weeks now and we met on sun at a cafe but I dunno whether he likes me or not. Sometimes he texts me back quickly but other times he doesn't reply and he said it cos he doesn't always see them but he's always on his phone so I dunno whether I believe that and have a feeling that he's talking to other girls. Should I just wait for him to text me now and not bother him anymore?? Also I dunno what he wants from me cos he put on his tinder that he's still figuring it out but then he said to me that he tryna find someone genuine and he hasn't mentuoned sex or anything to me. So what should i do??

I wouldn't worry to much about it, it seems like he's trying to play you but is failing, I wouldn't have any expectation from him if he is acting like this after two weeks.

Reply 2

Surnia

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So have you been talking or texting? If you want quick responses, phone him and do the former! Nothing better than a proper conversation to understand what's going on.

Reply 3

Ciel.

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Original post by Anonymous

Hey all so Iv been talking to a guy from tinder for 2 weeks now and we met on sun at a cafe but I dunno whether he likes me or not. Sometimes he texts me back quickly but other times he doesn't reply and he said it cos he doesn't always see them but he's always on his phone so I dunno whether I believe that and have a feeling that he's talking to other girls. Should I just wait for him to text me now and not bother him anymore?? Also I dunno what he wants from me cos he put on his tinder that he's still figuring it out but then he said to me that he tryna find someone genuine and he hasn't mentuoned sex or anything to me. So what should i do??

sounds like he's still exploring his options. it was only one date so i think thats pretty normal though

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Reply 4

anosmianAcrimony

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It's been two weeks, it would be weirder if he WASN'T talking to other people and figuring out his options. And maybe he is still figuring out what he wants romantically in general.

Sit down and have a think about what you want from him. Then have a nice deep talk with him if you possibly can, and keep getting to know him. Then pursue what you want.

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