I know that maybe internet dating isn't the best place the judge this, but it's full of plastic insta type people talking about emotional availability, doing 'inner work' and the like, whilst posing with poncy food. Talking how they spend weekends in an unbelievable fashion. The pretense is ubiquitous and alien. Ok to balance it I can look at someone like Garron on youtube and see irony alive and well but does anyone feel that irony is nearly dead in this world? People aren't down to earth anymore and this goes hand in hand with irony.