If you used Clearing in 2024, how did you find it?

why do ppl talk behind abt me when im literally in the room?

i dont want to hear it

i cant keep up with all your posts tbh lol.
but if people treat you like trash, it's because you let them, unfortunately

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Original post by luvsunsets

i dont want to hear it

People will always talk about you either good or bad. You have to practice self development and self love.

Either they don’t have the balls to say it to your face which is kind of a good thing but trust me at times you want to know to clear up the misunderstanding but again you do have to explain yourself every single time.

Limit talking about your confidentiality to them.

If they are your friends then it’s time to take the bull by the horn and ask them, if they don’t tell you then you might need another accountable partner but if they tell you, don’t get all defensive!!! Listen to them have a calm conversation of what you feel is right or wrong, own up to your mistakes and start making amendments.

Don’t allow everything that people say affect you, be selective of what you want to affect you plus when selecting it make sure it impacts you positive or you will turn it to the fuel and motivation to drive make you better.