after sex etiquette in uni

guys is it mean if i don’t respond to the guy i had sex w last night bc hes rlly nice and did nothing wrong but i just rlly don’t want anything to do w him😬 and he’s sent me like a million texts today and i kinda feel bad but i rlly don’t wanna talk to him because he gave me the major ick.

Reply 1

mike23mike

16

Its your call how you wish to behave. He seems to be keen so clearly he had a great time. If you want to forget this 'one night stand' the more grown up way would be to have a conversation with him about the way you feel about him - perhaps dont refer to him as being ick. Let him down easy - "its not you, its me" "I am just not ready for a relationship right now" etc.

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Reply 2

lexi rose

OP

1

Original post by mike23mike

Its your call how you wish to behave. He seems to be keen so clearly he had a great time. If you want to forget this 'one night stand' the more grown up way would be to have a conversation with him about the way you feel about him - perhaps dont refer to him as being ick. Let him down easy - "its not you, its me" "I am just not ready for a relationship right now" etc.

hmmm okay ur right it’s just very awkward rejecting people but ill try be mature about it - thank u for ur advice!

Reply 3

Zarek

21

It’s bad form sleeping with someone who is up for a relationship unless the ground rules are clear. Say that on reflection you don’t want to take things any further

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