he said that wrong thing and i don't want him anymore, or anyone else

Maybe go away for a break or go to see a friend

i cut ties with them long time ago. and hotels etc are out of question, i can't leave, no one else can manage our aggressive dog, i no longer trust my boyfriend with that

Sorry to hear this, all you can do is ask them to give you some space. Hope you find a way through

it was an offhand comment, not even directed at me, but i'll never be able to see him in the same light again.
rn i feel the same way about my boyfriend and my mother. nothing will change my mind, i woke up with my mind made up, idk how to explain this. how do i communicate to them that i want them to completely stop talking to me for now at least, without sounding weird. i want thm to completely ignore my existence, i need to be alone

just tell him how his comment made you feel and request some space for a little bit. nothing weird about that

You’ll need to tell us what it was for context.

That's why being independent is so important.

omg wow. yeah, you're so right. i'm magically independent from this moment forward 🙂

Sorry to hear that 🫂

i cannot

Try saying you can for a change.
Got dang
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