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How do I cope with stress and anxiety during my studies? I need to manage social life, work and academic life without much stress. Thank you

Reply 1

Hi there @Lindalia ,

Thanks for reaching out about this, because there are so many students feeling the exact same way as you 🙂 Here is what I'd suggest from my experience:

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Be vocal - if you find yourself struggling, then be open with your teachers/lecturers, make them aware of your situation and ask them for support with any part of the content you don't understand so you aren't left unsure.

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Create a balanced schedule - I organised this with a google calendar. I input my lectures in different colours per module, then blocked out periods of my free time to dedicate to uni work, but made sure I had at least 2-3 hours per week of protected chill time. Use these to delve into things which recharge you and you enjoy which are NOT work, such as sports, clubs, working part time, meeting friends, going to town, taking a walk, or just chilling with a book/boxset and a good cuppa tea. Having timeout like this is great for maintaining your concentration, motivation and avoids burnout.

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Keep a healthy lifestyle - take regular breaks in study sessions, prioritise sleep, eating healthily and talking to people you get on with regularly so you don't feel alone.

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Keep your goals realistic - you don't have to aim for everything to be perfect, just aim for progress! Try your best with your work and assignments, but remember that 'the best can be the enemy of the very good', and put your health and happiness first.

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Draw an elephant - this sounds daft, but its a technique I used at uni to prevent me becoming overwhelmed. If its for you, then draw an elephant in your diary, split it, and label each part with one of the semester's assignments and the deadline. Colour in each part when your assignment is done until you have a fully coloured elephant. This is a good way to visually break down what seems like a huge task (eg one whole semester with 5 assignments) into smaller, more manageable chunks.


I hope this helps, and very very best of luck in your studies this year :smile:

Holly
University of Bath

Reply 2

You sound quite low - university is often a difficult time and a big learning curve and change. Ask for help. Speak to other students about how they manage. You may find they are in exactly the same position as you and you won’t feel alone but also you may get useful advice. The student union can help and the uni will also have advice they can give you if you search around. There will be help available just do a little digging and remember that the first term is always a challenge and no one is expecting you to be perfect. Good luck 😉

Reply 3

Original post by Lindalia
How do I cope with stress and anxiety during my studies? I need to manage social life, work and academic life without much stress. Thank you

Hi!
The first thing I want to say is you are not alone in juggling this, and there is support available for you if it ever becomes too much.

Personally, I find a handwritten planner is the best way to physically organise events, lectures and tasks. I like that I have complete control over where things are written. However, I know friends who prefer the practicality of an online calendar. I would recommend having one place where you can keep track of all your activities, allowing you to clearly see what times things are.

It is worth noting that in terms of academics, your lecturers understand that you are new to university level work and will ease you into it. They will also have opportunities for extra academic support such as tutorials or drop in sessions, if you are particularly struggling.

Something I still find particularly difficult is having the confidence to say no to activities or events that I either don't want to attend or am too busy to. I would encourage you to get used to saying no, at university there are so many things going on at once that it is impossible to do everything.

Finally, I would encourage you to get in touch with your university's wellbeing team. They will be able to offer more tailored and in depth support, especially when things get more stressful during periods like exam season.

I hope this helps! Faye 🙂

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