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dealing with bullies?

any tips?
Original post by luvsunsets
any tips?

Just ignore them u are gorgeous
Bully back/defend yourself
Get tougher skin
Report
Avoid those places where bullies are at
Original post by luvsunsets
any tips?

eat cucumber
Original post by euro king
eat cucumber

Lmao wth
bang them in the face
Original post by Anonymous
bang them in the face
i can't do that cause they will snitch to the teachers
than the prinicpal will yell at me and call my parents
but i will get into trouble
and my parents would be mad at me
Original post by luvsunsets
i can't do that cause they will snitch to the teachers
than the prinicpal will yell at me and call my parents
but i will get into trouble
and my parents would be mad at me

how and why do they do this?
Original post by Anonymous
how and why do they do this?
well they would lie abt me and so that the teacher is always on their side
Original post by luvsunsets
well they would lie abt me and so that the teacher is always on their side

how, like do they make fun of you physically or like from your actions
Original post by Anonymous
how, like do they make fun of you physically or like from your actions
yh first part like a boy said he can beat me up or just for their friends he threw foil and pens at me
do you know the boy and like do you have frequent classes with him or is he random
Original post by Anonymous
do you know the boy and like do you have frequent classes with him or is he random
well when he first met me it was in another educational place and he was acted nice to me as if he wanted something from me
and i have had a few lessons where he is in the same class but he wouldnt approach me
also once he did ask me if i did move up a set to his class and i felt he was mocking me and he was either laughing or just joking to embarrass me
but i noticed that as he was with his new friends he would say to me 'what you looking at?' but when other girls were looking at me he wouldnt be rude
i did say something that he had a crush on a girl as he moved to the same school as me but idk if that is why he started to hate me or if he was annoyed
Give 'em the ol' one-two.
Original post by luvsunsets
well when he first met me it was in another educational place and he was acted nice to me as if he wanted something from me
and i have had a few lessons where he is in the same class but he wouldnt approach me
also once he did ask me if i did move up a set to his class and i felt he was mocking me and he was either laughing or just joking to embarrass me
but i noticed that as he was with his new friends he would say to me 'what you looking at?' but when other girls were looking at me he wouldnt be rude
i did say something that he had a crush on a girl as he moved to the same school as me but idk if that is why he started to hate me or if he was annoyed

from what I can tell from here is he's probably jealous or annoyed at you. But apart from that one thing you said to him, you haven't done anything else?
Original post by Anonymous
from what I can tell from here is he's probably jealous or annoyed at you. But apart from that one thing you said to him, you haven't done anything else?
nope! i realised that he hates me since then and avoided him like i do to everyone cause i had a feeling if i made drama infront of his mates they would gossip abt me

i tried to help his mate out cause he left his paper in class be a good person i approched him infront of his friends and cause i am a muslim his mates acted as if i have a crush on him and were making fun of me i feel so embarrased

Try and concentrate on what's more important, im not sure what year group ur in but just know that the situation won't last forever. This hasn't happened to me directly but my close friends have been affected. I'm guess you have reported it to the teachers but they do nothing about it. If this is true, there's not much you can do to change their behaviour. So from what I can say is start focusing on You and whatever You have to do. Within the next 5 years they will completely forget about you. I know you want this to stop right now but 'those Boys will be those Boys'.
Another tip is to make notes of everything that happens (I heard its good for evidence incase something major happens).
Just pay attention to enjoying life at its moment like being with your friends or if ur in yr 10 or yr11, focus on where you would want your future self to be. At the end of the day there is only God and you.
Original post by ICEcold_Stoic
Give 'em the ol' one-two.

knock 'em out
(edited 2 days ago)
Original post by luvsunsets
any tips?

-Never be there
-Keep your distance
-Be away
-Keep well away
-Avoid them

-Do not communicate with them

-Do not get too involved

-Dont think
-Dont care
-Dont acknowledge them
-Ignore

-Be calm
-Do not get affected

-Be silent

-Do not be in their groups, links, associations

-Do not share info

-Block their social media

-Detach
(edited 1 day ago)

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